mmmmmmmgenderidentitycrisis

some1_kill_till 8/13/2021 10:28 am 705

funnnnnnnn yayyyyy

its especially weird that when i started experiencing a gender identity crisis it was because i read a fanfic that addressed the reader as male and i just... idk i liked it a little too much (i almost cried tears of joy from just being addressed as male/masculinely) and now im starting to question if im actually non-binary or if im just male but i like dressing femininely sometimes ._. if anyone knows how i could get through this that would be great qwq

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Sep 24, 2023 4:00 pm

Dress how you want to dress. Its what ever makes you comfortable. Its important to be comfortable. You don't need to attach gender to a style of clothing. Just be uniquely you. <3

Sep 24, 2023 2:21 pm

@total_loser: i just finished using this sight and i think im going to change my prononrs to all but idk i used she/her for shits and giggels cuz i didnt think i would but then someone was like hang on that sounds right for me and i was like "huh" cuz it was like someone in my her=ad right and then someone else was like no he/hims right but like im not apart of them but i am im so confusedcryingshock i think i have some type of persanality disorder i have for a while but like i think i js confermed it i might js be genderflued but like i dont think thats the case becuse of other things that have happend but this is alr long

Aug 13, 2021 5:41 pm

aaaaaaaaa ur all so nice thank u all!!!!!!! @w@

Aug 13, 2021 2:13 pm

the way u express urself doesnt mean thats ur gender, like im a trans boy but i love wearing skirts and painting my nails and just fem stuff in general. maybe have some ppl you can trust refer to u as a boy/nonbinary?? u can always change how u identify u dont need to stick w just one label so if u dont like it then u can always change

Aug 13, 2021 12:38 pm

the best way to find out anything is through experimenting. try out different labels, see what works for you. you don't even have to use a label if you don't want to. for pronouns, there's a website called the "pronoun dressing room". you can put in your name and whatever pronouns you'd like to try, and it gives you an example sentence and some short stories. it's one of my favorites for trying things out. hope you figure everything out soon.

  • strawberrybrostrider
Aug 13, 2021 11:55 am

gender is weird and complicated. whatever you are, don't be afraid to change your labels or experiment with different presentations. it can be an ever-changing process lol

Aug 13, 2021 11:31 am

Just dress how you want to dress and see what happens! Focus on being comfortable, and don’t worry too much about what gender certain clothes are. Remember, it’s just fabric. Maybe ask your friends to use different pronouns to refer to you and see how you feel about it

Aug 13, 2021 11:09 am

@strawberrybrostrider: i dont rlly feel like im both :/

  • strawberrybrostrider
Aug 13, 2021 10:57 am

you could be both rainbowsmile