If my pronouns are He/They am I Binary or Non-Binary? Can I be both?

SLUSHEE_GUTZ 6/19/2021 06:01 pm 303

I go by He/They/It pronouns and I'm a bit confused about it. I'm not sure if it makes sense.. like I don't mind to be called by any, but I don't know what I am? Do I technically identify as a male, or as an Enby? help kao cry

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Jun 21, 2021 11:14 am

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((i also use he/they/it, and i go by "Demiboy" however, you dont have to go by a gender identity you arent comfortable with!!1! ))

Jun 21, 2021 9:22 am

honestly im a she/they and like to think I've got a lacroix of gender thing going on. hints of girl, but mostly bubbles. really, it's all about what you are most comfortable identifying with and what feels the most right to you! i know it can be hard and confusing but you got this. and remember: it's okay to try out multiple labels and make mistakes. it doesn't mean you're faking or anything, it means you are exploring yourself and your gender which is a brave and important thing

Jun 21, 2021 8:56 am

gander is fake and pronouns aren't the same as gender and you can have more then one gender. Its all about what labels you vibe with. There is no set system or rules. Its up to you.

Jun 21, 2021 6:27 am

pronouns don’t equal gender all the time. if you feel your gender is male, then you’re male. if you cant identify with any gender binary, then you’re enby

Jun 21, 2021 5:03 am
@Daddys_dead_sIuT: u can be nth o it’s up to u
Jun 21, 2021 5:02 am

Demi boy ...idk

Jun 19, 2021 8:49 pm

as weird or contradictory as it may sound, you can be bigender male and non-binary, as well! (others hadn't mentioned that, so I thought i would.) one of us used to identify as that, being male and xenogender, but i don't see why someone couldn't be male and agender, or any other NB label!

Jun 19, 2021 6:18 pm

@R3LAXR0NAN: Thank you! I apologize if my post may have sounded offensive, I truly did not mean for it to come out that way I was just genuinely confused aha. I'll make sure to keep that in mind!

Jun 19, 2021 6:17 pm

@Keroppi: Thank you for the information! That actually sounds very appealing, I will look into it more

Jun 19, 2021 6:16 pm

yep, you can be non-binary! i'm nonbinary (well, technically xenogender but xenogenders are part of nonbinary, so idk) and i dont even use they/them at all! pronouns and gender aren't the same thing. Whatever you say your gender is, regardless of your pronouns, that's your gender! If the term nonbinary makes you comfortable, you can be nonbinary and using he/they/it doesn't change that!