(TW: pedophillia) What do I do?

Sour_Sketcher 6/9/2021 11:01 am 439

I was talking with a 21 year old man for two years.

I'm fifteen.

I thought I was in love with him, A few days ago I woke up to the worst panic attack of my life and realised, If I let this "relationship" go on any longer then something horrible will happen to me.

I just deleted and blocked him on every social media I could. I'm shaking.

I'm so fucking glad I left before I could send him that letter and allow him to know my address.

I'm so glad I left at all.

My phone has limits on it that make it lock all the apps in the night and unlock them at seven in the morning.

So I'm waiting anxiously for seven to see if he's going to react to me leaving him.

I'm terrified of how he may react but if he's silent that might be even more terrifying.


8 Replies

Sorry, you are unable to reply. If the thread is still open, you might have been blocked from commenting due to spam or abuse, or we might not have been able to verify that you are a real account. Try updating your profile and interacting more on the site. There are greater restrictions on forum comments due to spam. Spam comments will still not be published, even for verified accounts
Please log in to comment
Displaying 1-8 of 8 comments
Sort by:
Jun 9, 2021 11:24 am

The worst part is, he has a huge following on tiktok and could be doing this to any number of other girls like me.

His @ is @weirdhaf1 and I have to absolutely stress, if you come across this man on any social media. RUN.

Jun 9, 2021 11:11 am

@spence_krash: Thankfully when you block someone on instagram it gives you the option to automatically block any new accounts the person makes. But on other social media I'm not so lucky. Thank you. I'll do my best I promise.

Jun 9, 2021 11:10 am

1. your parents will not blame you for this! 2. if you feel you can't tell your parents, tell another trusted adult, such as a teacher.
you are the victim here, and all reasonable adults will do their best to get you out of this situation.
please find someone who can help you, we can only give you advice.

Jun 9, 2021 11:09 am

thats revolting (in his end not urs) maybe ask a TRUSTED adult for help,like a teacher

Jun 9, 2021 11:09 am

@Sour_Sketcher: I get that. thats actually exactly what happened in my case. and now my parents go through all my stuff. but it wasn't because i told that, it was because they found out. im 15 aswell, and at tjis age theres nothing really i can do on my own to get help, so im not sure hwat to tell you.

Jun 9, 2021 11:08 am

make sure you blocked him completely everywhere, beware of new accounts following you on all social media, especially ones with no profile or followers as they may be him, if he reaches out again you need to tell an adult, no matter how you think they will respond, i know im a stranger but be careful who you talk to on the internet, always ask before giving your address out to someone you havent met in real life, or someone who hasnt met your parents/ guardians. You are not in the wrong here and none of this is your fault, please be safe <3

Jun 9, 2021 11:06 am

@inxxiety_: I'm afraid that if I tell my parents they'll blame me for the situation.

Jun 9, 2021 11:05 am

oof. i have had similar experiences. many. many. times. im not confortable sharing the situations, but i recommend asking an adult for guidance. please stay safe on the internet