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I try to keep them for the good memories associated with the past. I've never considered anything worth destroying the love and effort put into it. At the time it was given after all a lot of attention usually went into the piece so destroying it seems to belittle the good times as not being worth the effort of any relationship, friendship or Whatever. Karma associated with it should not be negative when it was built with love. Put it away a while and see if you still feel the same about the memory next time it comes up?

I stop wearing it and I might put it in a place by itself. If you feel really strongly about it you may want to cut it up but I would only do this if you are done with the relationship for good. You need to be level headed and not emotional. I've seen lots of people cut up kandi and regret it later.

Slightly different, but I actually have the single that my ex made me when I taught him how to make kandi. I was good friends with him before we dated.. I almost threw it away because its a reminder of him, and I try not to think about him because we never speak anymore. But I keep it and actually wear it most of the time because we did have good times together before things went downhill. It's a reminder that I'm still a strong person. And it reminds me that I moved on. Corny or mushy sounding, but it's true.

I would keep it. You might have gotten in a fight but if they were your friend then keep it as memories for the good times you did have. But if you really just want to get it out of your sight just trade it. Time was put into it, no need to just destroy that effort. And that one other option is throw it back at them?

it all depends on the situation.. if it was amicable or a moderately bad fight that broke you apart, keep it for the memories, that or if it breaks, reuse the beads to make something beautiful. You should NEVER trash kandi, it never did anything to you! If the relationship really ended that badly, I suggest just trading, so the kandi can make someone just as happy as it used to make you.