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Advice? Maybe? (/nsrs)

_Apollo_ 12/28/2023 09:48 pm 227

okay- i am going to try to keep this short---

But, um-- I've been having a difficult time trying to figure out who I am lately. Like, I see all of these xenogenders and just get so confused bc i identify with so many of 'em. Does anyone have any advice? if so, pls help!! <3

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Dec 29, 2023 12:27 pm

Don't stress the small things!! Gender is big and crazyYou can hoard all the genders you want, or identify with none of them at all! Whatever makes you happy

Dec 29, 2023 11:24 am

You can literally do whatever you want when it comes to gender- I personally do one large overarching label (like trans or nonbinary) and then have a whole bunch of mircolabels that I also identify with (genderfluid, genderqueer, xenogenders) I'm a xenogender hoarder. If I see one I like I'll save the definition and flag to my lil list. it's just for me but it makes me happy. Most days my gender isn't even a specific label, just a vibe. It doesn't have to be concrete. You can also make your own xenogenders/gender labels if you feel like nothing feels "right", or you can use no label at all! up to you :3

good luck

Dec 29, 2023 9:04 am

@Xo_Ghost_oX: calm down I've had that difficulty and I've settled on one.i am a therian.theriotype dog.breed husky

Dec 29, 2023 8:56 am

@Phosfate: @mintiii_: @IttyBittyToasty: Thank you guys for the support!! beating heart

Dec 29, 2023 8:16 am

All the labels and flags are there to fit you, you don't have to worry about whether you fit them. It is totally okay to identify with multiples, or with none. rainbowsmile

Dec 29, 2023 7:52 am

idk genuinely, i’ve been thinking of cat related neos lately bc it kinda just feels right

Dec 29, 2023 12:18 am

it's okay to take your time in figuring out who you are, and its okay to try out identities and change them later. have fun with it and try not to get too stressed about picking the 'perfect' label, you just have to figure out what you like best. best of luck!

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