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not sure how to helpbut I had a similar confusion. I’d say just use sapphic as a label until you are sure. Maybe i could help more if you elaborate? /nm sorry if that sounds mean, idk how else to word it lol- Also, if it helps, you don’t need a label! I have a friend that doesn’t label his sexuality at all

I feel you, I think I’ve given up on properly labeling my sexuality at this point lol

If it helps at all, just know that you don’t need to strictly adhere to a label for your attraction & identity to be valid!! It’s a great thing to find terms that you identify with, but it can sometimes be stressful trying to fit yourself into a box of being *this* or *that* when you are still figuring yourself out. I feel that sexuality can also be fluid for many people, so it can be extra confusing if you suddenly gain or lose attraction to certain genders.

I’d also recommend looking into sapphic as a label if you are completely unsure on wether you are lesbian or bi