what does this even mean

_n0t_sur3_ 12/24/2022 12:52 pm 401

okay so the guy i was talking to for like 4 months told me he didnt want a relationship 3 days ago. Ive been crushed since its so out of the blue considering that day he literally hugged me, held my hand, and wrapped his arm around me. Then 7 hours later, I receive the terrible news. I keep talking to him even tho i know its so bad for me, but I cant help it because Im pretty sure i might love him a little bit (cause i dont think you act like how i did when told this news if you dont love them even a little) and i asked him yesterday if he still like liked me and went "yeah a little" and then "or maybe more then a little" i just want to know what the hell this is supposed to mean. I do not get it. if you need more background on the situation i can provide.

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Dec 24, 2022 1:44 pm

@Strawberry_BroStrider: yeah we werent dating, but we basically were, just without the label. He told me the reason why he never asked me out was because he wasnt sure about if he even wanted a relationship, and now we know lmfao. but him saying "yeah a little bit" then "or maybe more then a little bit" just confused tf out of my friends and me.

Dec 24, 2022 1:35 pm

were you dating already? did he break up with you? if "talking" means "talking about being in an relationship while not actually being in one officially", i'd assume it means he's just not ready for something established, not that he decided he doesn't like you at all. (if im gonna be honest i don't really understand the "talking" status in general, but that's just me and my aromantic-aplatonic ass)