i think my crush thinks im weird... any advice??

akavenus 10/13/2022 06:04 pm 371

*context* i was put in a gifted and talented program and have had the same 4-5 classes with the same people for a few years, one of the people (my crush) has been in it with me since our "group" started.

we started getting closer at the end of the year last school year and now i eat lunch with him <3 anyways, I am vastly different than him, he's tall im average height, he likes musicals i.. don't, he is in band i'm in choir. i'm kinda awkward around him but i'm awkward around everyone who aren't my afab friends. but i don't know how to get closer with him please help me!! /gen

(btw im gay he's pan i believe)

edit 1: we went to the zoo for a field trip and we grouped together!! the group consisted of my 3 really good friends, him and his brother, and me! we spent most of our time with the fish and gawking at the animals (we gawked at all the native animals) was it a great bonding experience? yes. does my other friend have a crush on the same person? yes. do i care? no.

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Oct 19, 2022 7:02 am

@arefriendselectric: thank you!! so far we've been getting closer! i gave him a single yesterday!!

Oct 18, 2022 11:52 am
Oct 18, 2022 11:50 am

i think as long as you keep eating lunch with him, you'll grow more comfortable around him! just being around people more will grow the comfortibility level you have with them. maybe if you want to grow closer to him, just ask him questions about himself? maybe, what his favorite musical is, or why he did band rather than choir/orchestra. even if you don't really want his answers, letting him tell you will open the door to him being more open to you, and you both possibly becoming better friends!!