gender confusion help pls

megan__d13 5/24/2022 09:01 am 1068

so like i like using she/her but i also like he/him and fem compliments and terms but my name is meg which i see as fem and i like masc compliments and terms too and i dont like they/them or androgynous terms and compliments and i feel like a girl sometimes and a boy other times and idk whatmy gender is someone help pls

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bingoSpingo
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Jun 2, 2022 5:20 pm

bigender maybe?

_n0t_sur3_
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Jun 2, 2022 5:00 pm

you dont have to label yourself. you could be a masc leaning female and dress fem sometimes too

asherinzz
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Jun 2, 2022 4:01 pm

the first thought that came to mind was bigender, where you're two genders [boy + girl, agender + nonbinary, etc]!! and you could use she/he pronouns if you feel comfortable :]

asherinzz
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Jun 2, 2022 4:01 pm

the first thought that came to mind was bigender, where you're two genders [boy + girl, agender + nonbinary, etc]!! and you could use she/he pronouns if you feel comfortable :]

scoobydoo
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Jun 2, 2022 3:54 pm

@SleepinqZzz: I'm genderfloren! you were close, it means genderfluidity that never encompasses binary genders

SpiderPool616
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Jun 2, 2022 1:46 pm

Hey!! I literally have the same thing goin on, I use genderfluid because I always feel like I'm just kinda sliding on that scale but never fully androgynous, but what helped me most is just not focusing on it?? like idk if that makes sense, but because I don't fit into any gender binaries or commonly used genders but I still feel like I have gender, I try to not focus on labelling so much, and it really helps me feel more comfy. Like I'm not a girl/boy/enby/whatever, I'm just kinda me.