help me pls what do i do

utaautane 2/22/2022 05:42 am 582

im sorry if this sounds like im selfish and paranoid i just dont want ppl thinking more badly abt me at school than they already do

ok so i wanna dye my hair purple and i have for a while and i told all my friends including this one and i FINALLY am today after school!! but, my friend that is "popular" (i hate saying that) came into class with purple hair today, and im scared that because im not as liked or "popular' when i come in tmr, ppl will think im copying her.

she's shown no interest in dyeing her hair purple before i told her, so idk if she did this on purpuse or not,but i wanna believe its not. im not gona tell her to re dye it cuz thats mean. i just dk what to do.

im sorry this is a dumb thing to be worried abt, i just wanna get my hair done and not be hated at school

update: it’s purple now and looks super duper awesome thanks everyone for the advice!!




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  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 22, 2022 5:04 pm

@smile_kid: lol this made me laugh i love how much spunk this comment has

Feb 22, 2022 4:50 pm

Do purple go for it! I've been doing a specific color for awhile and all of a sudden this girl started doing it and at first she got some comments but just ignore them if she doesn't like it she can change her hair color no need for you to change so she can be happy.

Feb 22, 2022 4:21 pm

@harpersaquesadilla: i think you should still wear it. they don't own pink sweaters. try styling it differently and accessorizing it if you wanna do it differently happy

  • harpersaquesadilla
Feb 22, 2022 4:07 pm

haha i’m in the same situation kinda

so for my birthday my mom got me a strawberry print knitted cardigan (it’s so cute) but my ex + crush literally has a new pink sweater with strawberries on it and i don’t want to wear it cause she’ll probably notice (we’re still friends)

Feb 22, 2022 12:16 pm

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: thx <3

Feb 22, 2022 11:44 am

do a different shade of purple or purple + another color, green, blue, black, n pink look neat w purple thumbsup

Feb 22, 2022 11:43 am

@smile_kid: i fuckin love u dude /p

Feb 22, 2022 11:28 am

do it. she doesn't own purple

you could always do a different shade or multicolor if youre so worried too

let us know what you decide hklove

Feb 22, 2022 11:19 am

Do it! who cares if people think ur copying her! she cant gate keep or own purple hair! heck i have purple hair!

Feb 22, 2022 8:15 am

she doesnt own purple hair so do what you want happy its just hair and no one can gatekeep it -Onyx