how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6792

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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boyflux
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Jul 27, 2021 5:25 pm

@_n0t_sur3_: pupgender is a gender relating to dogs and small things and boyflux is a gender where your gender fluxuates anywhere from agender to fully male! right now though im mostly agender =3

boyflux
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Jul 27, 2021 5:22 pm

@moonbowNat: genderfluid without the fem days is actually genderfaun ! ive looked into it myself but it wasnt for me, hope this helps =]

V4MP1RE_GUTZZ
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Jul 27, 2021 12:45 pm

i saw that one makeup artist Benji Krol i think his name was and was like- "omfg he's so pretty i wanna look like him"

so yeah

that's also where my name came from lol i love the name

some1_kill_till
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Jul 27, 2021 11:29 am

so for a while (or the first 12 years of my life OOP) i was just confused and then i was like "oh wait theres more than 2 genders??!" at the beginning of 6th grade, and then i just identified as non-binary for a long time, but then i realized that non-binary is an umbrella term so i was like "well whats under the umbrella?" and i found agender and i was like "well thats gotta be me, because i dont feel like a girl and i dont feel like a boy... most days. wait-" so then i was like "genderfluid????" but at the time i didnt know that you didnt have to be full spectrum to be genderfluid, so i thought "i cant be that because i never wanna be a girl ever" so then i was confused again for a few months and then i found out abt being a demiboy/demigirl and i was like "oh so maybe im a demiboy!" and then i was like "nope nvm i only feel like a boy sometimes" and now i think i might be genderfluid but without the feminine identities. so yeah! im still figuring myself out but im getting there and im proud of me!

edit: yeah fck no im male lolz (im a trans male im not just being transphobic/enbyphobic?? idk what the word for that would be)

_n0t_sur3_
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Jul 27, 2021 10:04 am

@kand1rocks: <3

ripthelizards
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Jul 27, 2021 10:03 am

@_n0t_sur3_: hello sweet cheeks /p /j

_n0t_sur3_
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Jul 27, 2021 10:02 am

@kand1rocks: hey bb

ripthelizards
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Jul 27, 2021 9:59 am

@_n0t_sur3_: we are on facetime rn u r a weirdo /j /lh

D3B
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Jul 27, 2021 9:09 am

when i was in 6th grade, i started learning about more identities and thought that demigirl suited me best, then pangender, then genderfluid, then back to pangender, and then back to demigirl. i basically went in a full circle lolol

towards the end of 6th grade, i kinda brushed it off and just identified as a woman until towards the end half of 8th grade (which was pretty recently, maybe december 2020 - February 2021?)

then i identified as a demigirl for a while, then i started questioning more and identified as genderqueer for a bit, and now i'm comfy as nonbinary!

nonbinary feels best for me right now, but im still experimenting so it may change again

i hope this wasnt too confusing XDD

cinnamorollkin
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Jul 27, 2021 6:16 am

freshman year was when i came out as pan to mostly everyone i knew at the time, but when everyone asked if my gender had changed at all, i sorta...froze?

i felt like i had to change at that point, but in my head i knew that cis female just wasn't right in my head. i knew i was physically femme, but i didn't always love being called ma'am at work or being called pretty/gorgeous/beautiful/etc.

so i flipped around for a while, up until about the end of my senior year, and finally realized that i was a demigirl and wanted to be referred to with she/her and they/them pronouns, it helped my head-self feel better about it as well as my outer appearance self feel okay with wearing skirts and feminine things while also still being referred to as they!

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