post your gender/pronouns and sexuality before quarantine and then now (caps)

merbyler 7/12/2021 02:09 pm 22860

before:

female, she/her (secretly wanted to use she/they but was too afraid to tell anyone), lesbian (BESTIE IDK WHY I IDENTIFIED AS A LESBIAN I WAS CONSTANTLY DROOLING OVER BOYS HUH??? i was an idiot geez)

now:

demiboy??? he/they/star, pansexual

I'm very glad i was introduced to neos I love them

why is this thread so popular lol

YOU GUYS BROUGHT IT BACK!!! HERE'S MY UPDATE

trans masc, he/they/pup/bun/star, gay!!

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Jul 15, 2021 1:52 am

before: she/they(?) bi or lesbian (i went back and forth a lot)

Now: He/They/it, queer and ace

Jul 15, 2021 6:37 am

before: she/they, demigirl, bi

now: any pronouns + neopronouns, non-binary, omnisexual/queer <3

Jul 15, 2021 11:30 am

before: she/her pronouns cis girl bi or lesbian

now: they/them/ it/its drip/drop pronouns non-binary bi

feeling a lot better now happy

Jul 15, 2021 11:44 am

Before quarantine, I was pan and I was trans He/Him
Now I'm Gay/Bi, aro ace oriented, and I'm genderfluid, and I use any pronouns

Jul 15, 2021 1:04 pm

before quarantine, I identified as a female but had a bit of disconnect with the concept of gender, and used she/her and was omnisexual/panromantic (?? i don't really remember lol)

now tho i identify as nonbinary, considering the labels agender, bigender, mutogender, or genderflux but idk yet, use any pronouns but prefer they/them and sorta dislike she/her, and I'm unlabeled for sexuality but i think i might be pansexual/romantic and on the ace spectrum (idk yet!! all of these could change by next week for all i know!!)

Jul 15, 2021 1:10 pm

before: bi & any pronouns (everyone usually defaulted to she/her, eventually i figured out i preferred they/them but i was too scared to tell anyone)

now: bi & non-binary smug (they/them + a couple sets of neos)

Jul 15, 2021 1:10 pm

in the beginning i was bisexual and i used she/her i didn’t feel anything else now i’m genderfluid pansexual and aceflux

Jul 15, 2021 2:42 pm

Not the biggest change but

Before: Nonbinary (all pronouns), Panromantic, Polyamorous and asexual (I realized i wasn't asexual, i was just scared my best friend (who is asexual) would treat me differently)

After: Genderfluid (All pronouns except He/him), Pansexual

I think I might still be poly but I'm not sure

Jul 15, 2021 4:41 pm

Before quarantine I was non binary, used they/them pronouns but didn't mind he/him, and asexual/panromantic.

And now I'm agender, use they/it/ze pronouns, and I'm demisexual/biromantic (I just say "bi" for simplicity, lol


Jul 15, 2021 4:46 pm

before: he/him, stealth trans male, very gc

after: transmasc he/they, SO GNC