post your gender/pronouns and sexuality before quarantine and then now (caps)

merbyler 7/12/2021 02:09 pm 22811

before:

female, she/her (secretly wanted to use she/they but was too afraid to tell anyone), lesbian (BESTIE IDK WHY I IDENTIFIED AS A LESBIAN I WAS CONSTANTLY DROOLING OVER BOYS HUH??? i was an idiot geez)

now:

demiboy??? he/they/star, pansexual

I'm very glad i was introduced to neos I love them

why is this thread so popular lol

YOU GUYS BROUGHT IT BACK!!! HERE'S MY UPDATE

trans masc, he/they/pup/bun/star, gay!!

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Nov 6, 2021 3:02 pm

b4-

she/her,pansexual

now-

He/they panromantic?? Demiboy

Nov 6, 2021 12:05 pm

before: nonbinary, they/them but literally out to NO ONE lol, had no clue what genders i liked but i was head over heels for this one girl at school

during: nonbinary still, he/they but was starting to get sick of they/them already, out to a few friends, "nonbinary lesbian" (i literally love men idk what i was talking about lmao) also has a gf at this point and i love her sm sjdghskjdhfksdjhf happy

after (more like current, i still thought i was nonbinary for a bit afterwards): boy, he/him, out to all my friends and few teachers at school, queer affff, still together with my gf!!

Nov 6, 2021 12:00 pm

before: nonbinary asexual lesbian (was constantly switching btwn IDing as a lesbian and IDing as bi), they/them (secretly liked he/him pronouns but was scared i wouldn't "be allowed" to be a lesbian if i used them).

now: gay (???) transman, he/they pronouns, also i'm polyam now lol

the nonbinary lesbian to gay transmasc pipeline is real and i am proof /lhj

Nov 6, 2021 11:56 am

idek it was so long ago~

but i think I remember, cus i know who I was with at the time

before: they/them? nblm/gay, polyamorous but closeted

after: it/he/they, angled aro/ace, unlabeled (but kind of pan? I just dont use a label for it)

Nov 6, 2021 7:10 am

before: demigirl lesbian, she/they

now: transmasc gay , literally any pronouns other than she/they

really said full 180 LMAOAOA

Nov 5, 2021 9:38 pm

before: lesbian, demigirl, they/she
now: gay, trans masc, he/it/tooth.chr + a lot more neos :3

Nov 5, 2021 8:50 pm

before: he/him - bi - monogamous

now: he/ve/ick - gay - polyamorous

Nov 5, 2021 7:03 pm

Before: Heterosexual,cis, bi curious, she/her

After: Pan and idk somewhere on the ace spectrum, She/they//it (he??) and a sum neoz, i have absolutely no idea what my gender is.

Nov 5, 2021 5:44 pm

before: cis gender pan she/her

Now: demi girl lesbian(?) Shey/they/it (I go by unlabeled but I'm questioning lesbian)

Nov 5, 2021 5:16 pm

before: female, she/her, pan

after: she/he/they/ghost, bi