I cant find people to trade/make kandi with ;_;

Laurel 9/26/2015 03:19 pm 4613

so I have been making kandi for a little over a year, and it's been hard for me to find people to trade or make kandi with. I started my first year of high school, and I have probably seen one or 2 people with what looks like kandi, but I think i might have social anxiety, because it's so hard for me to approach and ask them... so should I just wear my kandi around and see if other people can find me? Or do I try and teach some friends how to? Or should I wait till I get out of high school? ANY suggestions?

(If you do answer, I really do appreciate it, thank you so much.)

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Night_Owl_EDC
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Oct 4, 2015 11:57 am

I'm in high school as well, I wear my kandi everywhere, and I have a whole group of friends who rave and are going to EDC with me. I suggest wearing them a lot and try getting an EDC shirt as well. I have one, I can't find a pic and I didn't bring it with me, but it's white, has EDC in blue at the bottom, and on top of the letters of EDC is that little bunny guy sitting with his leg hanging over and he's holding up heart hands and wearing kandi.

Hollow_Beats
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Oct 4, 2015 12:11 pm

I'm in highschool (but homeschooled online) I wouldn't mind trading with you~! though as of friends. I'm not sure, I tried to teach some of mine and they kinda liked it....It just depends on what friends you got.

Laurel
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Oct 4, 2015 12:19 pm

@Hollow_Beats: i'd love to trade bit my parents are really over protective of me ;-; it makes me so sad because i'm looking at all of these people and their kandi is so amazing and they're like "i'll trade anytime! Hmu!" And I can't hit them up

Hollow_Beats
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Oct 4, 2015 12:26 pm

@Laurel: Oh I see! ^7^ and I can understand xD mine were the same way. ;w; well hopefully you can sometime~!

moonraver6661
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Oct 6, 2015 3:46 pm

maybe you could do it over skype or another video chat provider? that's where i do all my kandi making with others.

moonraver6661
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Nov 21, 2015 12:52 am

if you see someone with kandi, compliment them on it. That could start a conversation and get you a new friend. Dont call it kandi though because they may not be into it, just wearing the bracelets

"Hey i like your bracelet, did you make it?"

I know those social anxiety feels bruh i really do big time. Hang in there because people arent as threatening as they seem in your head

MsDia
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Nov 21, 2015 4:45 pm

I guess your not the only one who doesn't have people to trade with ;c; I only made one trade in my whole life and it was with somebody that I didn't even knew. But atleast I have the kandi the person traded with me like in a box of my stuff that hasn't got here. But hey! more friends the merrier!