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Dawg I’m so confused

Gay 7/10/2022 07:33 am 469

ok look ik I haven’t posted in like 1 year but I thought y’all would be the right people to ask

I have been seriously questioning my gender on a regular basis recently. I THOUGHT I was boyflux and gay but recently I feel…weird?? Like, I’m a boy in a girl way but also neither

I think I’m just queer in general (genderqueer and queer when it comes to my sexuality) but I haven’t exactly found much on google to help me

All I ask is that u help me by listing genders and their definition PLEASEEEEE

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netherpi
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Jul 10, 2022 12:46 pm

It's okay if you don't have a label. Honestly i find hyperspecific labeling kind of unnecessary, however i understand its value for some. It took myself a while to accept that I don't need to know what I am down to a t. I'm cool with just being nonbinary. Tbh, it is so much worse to try to box yourself in and limit yourself to just one, possibly wrong identity. It doesn't mean you're faking it just because you don't have an extremely specific label that validates and 'proves' your entire existence. Trust me. Just be you, however fluid that identity may be!!

linkinpark
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Jul 10, 2022 9:23 am

if you feel like your gender shifts you could be genderfluid, i know multiple people who id as agender and are more comfortable leaning into masc terms and whatnot, you could also identify purely as nonbinary if you want.

i, like you, understood my attraction to men yet still couldnt find the right sexuality label for myself until i was 23 and realized im aspec. orientation labels are also problematic for us genderqueer people because the labels were designed with only binary people in mind so figuring stuff out can be so uuurgh

k4d3x_61
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Jul 10, 2022 9:15 am

from what ive seen genderqueer is basically "not cis" and whatever that means to the person, same for queer meaning "not straight" for sexuality. if you want something more specific then this site could possibly help? https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_Wiki

Rainy_Daze
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Jul 10, 2022 9:12 am

maybe genderfluid? I actually felt the exact same way when I hought i was a demiboy. Also, maybe check out xenogenders, and especially the genderfluid fragment system (links to wiki) It's a bit confusing at first, but it gets really specific with its labels, and I think it could be useful.

fellsanz
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Jul 10, 2022 8:55 am

maybe genderfluid or bigender? I dunno- I kinda feel the same way if that makes sense and I use xenogender labels so you could also look into those

Gay
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Jul 10, 2022 7:35 am

I think I like the ring of he/they too but I have never liked they/them pronouns in the past…..

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Dawg I’m so confused

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