help with sexuality

carcinoGeneticist 5/4/2022 05:09 pm 294

hi so uh im gay! obviously lol

amd like ive always felt like...super uncomfortable with that fact, so could any1 give me tips on how to feel more comfortable/comfort me/whatever?

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May 5, 2022 11:01 pm

Like some of the other comments mentioned, I'm not sure what you mean by uncomfortable. I know with me it was weird calling myself straight because I just didn't really even feel straight. It wasn't until I realized I was bi that being called bi just made more sense to myself and it basically answered all of the questions I had about myself.

May 5, 2022 8:43 am

That’s kind of something you have to figure out on your own, if you have dealt with homophobia it’s going to be stuck in your mind until you can understand, accept, and love, you don’t have to do it alone though, needing help is completely okay but other people can’t fill the void for you kao yes

May 5, 2022 8:38 am

if you're uncomfortable with a label it can be one of two things. You're either struggling with a degree of internalized homophobia or the label isn't accurate to your actual sexuality. Take time to unpack why you feel the way you do about your label and explore other options.

May 5, 2022 8:20 am

idk if you mean like.... u just dont like the label or u just dont want to be gay but maybe calling urself mlm will help bc thats how i used to present myself b4 i was bi

May 5, 2022 7:40 am

Remember dicks r good