~Girl~Boy~Girl...HELP!!!

OfMiceAndDestiny 10/10/2012 07:27 pm 1128

oing into the seventh grade I realized I was Bisexual. Then the summer after eighth grade I discovered I was PANSEXUAL. I was SO HAPPY to finally full understand what I was.I never told my parents because I just wasn't ready yet. But just recently I woke up feeling...different.I went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror and...It hit me. I didn't want to be a girl. I wanted to become a boy. The feeling had been gathering inside me for so long I just didn't know what it was till now. Here's the catch: I want to be a boy who wants to be a girl. so in other words I'd act like a girl but tell people I'm a Boy I guess...It's stupid. But idk what else to do..or say! I'm so confused...I don't even know what I'm asking..Advice i guess? Plz help

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OfMiceAndDestiny
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Oct 17, 2012 4:32 pm

"Purpl3Sag3": I suggest looking up One in Ten groups in your area. They help alot with indentifying orientation, if it matters at all to you. lol. That's how I found out I was Pansexual. I have a transgender gay male friend who is pretty much the same way. He's a girl who wants to get a sex change, but only date men. So he's pretty flamboyant. He's an AMAZING person as well. So if you're looking for a person to talk to, I suggest him. (I can PM you his name if you wanna FB chat him and such). Also, there are alot of online video chat groups(more like a youtube for LGBT life stories) that kind of tell stories/offer advice on topics like this. I encourage you to look em up! c: This helped A LOT! Thx!

Purpl3Sag3
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Oct 17, 2012 3:24 pm

I suggest looking up One in Ten groups in your area. They help alot with indentifying orientation, if it matters at all to you. lol. That's how I found out I was Pansexual. I have a transgender gay male friend who is pretty much the same way. He's a girl who wants to get a sex change, but only date men. So he's pretty flamboyant. He's an AMAZING person as well. So if you're looking for a person to talk to, I suggest him. (I can PM you his name if you wanna FB chat him and such). Also, there are alot of online video chat groups(more like a youtube for LGBT life stories) that kind of tell stories/offer advice on topics like this. I encourage you to look em up! c:

Hypomnesia
Member

Oct 17, 2012 12:08 am

There are so many labels floating around to define sexuality. You don't have to fit under any definition, what you want and who you want can change on a daily basis, all that matters is that you surround yourself with people who love you for who you are. Those that don't will shift themselves out of your life... but then again, who would want them around anyway? You go boy/girl, stay strong!

KThuy
Member

Oct 16, 2012 4:13 pm

Am gonna keep this simple just be who you are if your happy than your parents should accept you just the way you are (: good luck

Zephelia
Member

Oct 13, 2012 7:09 am

BE YOUSEELF!!!...

OfMiceAndDestiny
Member

Oct 12, 2012 2:14 pm

Yesterday (OCTOBER 11TH) Was national coming out day. I felt like I needed to tell someone I was close to so...I told my dog I was pansexual and questioning my Gender. I know it sounds silly but I'm taking baby steps so that When I DO tell my parents I'm comfortable with saying "I'm pansexual, and I'm questioning my gender." Thank you everyone

I just need to be myself. No ones stopping me

CellularMango
Old School Member

Oct 11, 2012 5:49 pm

I believe this is being "genderfluid". There are so many different ways it can go [for what gender they feel on a given day/moment and how they go about showing it], but as for sexual orientation, there is a tendency for them to be pansexual. It's a leap for me to speak on any sexual orientation matters considering I stay out off it. I'm not ready to share that aspect off my life with family, friends, or any public audience. I reserve it for more significant others that I believe "need" to know that information. It's not an identifying trait to me. But I say be what gender you want to be whenever you feel and like whoever you like when you have those feelings for them.

UpWithTheRythem
Member

Oct 11, 2012 3:48 pm

just act like you, if you wantto be a boy, youll naturally find your self driftig towads boy behaviour, if

Ecliipse
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Oct 11, 2012 2:27 pm

Alright I have a school family... Bilogically I am a girl but they call me a guy and I crossdress as a girl... I'm not sure if it's actually possible but if we can do it as rping, why can't you do it irl?

lita
Member

Oct 11, 2012 2:19 pm

Be what you want to be. No one's gonna stop you, so do it if it's what you really want.

~Girl~Boy~Girl...HELP!!!

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