How do you react when people ask you to teach them how to make kandi?

sadmaachine 9/9/2012 03:40 pm 3888

I wear kandi up to my elbows at school. I've gotten compliments on them, I've been called a freak too many times to remember, and I've also had people asking me to teach them how to make kandi. I taught one of my closest friends because I thought she understood what kandi stood for, what it means to me, to the kandi community. I thought she knew that each piece of kandi should have meaning. But instead she started making and selling the kandi two days after I taught her (Like Hot Topic! lol) It just irked me a little, but I never told her she couldn't. I guess I just thought she would know. Now another friend of mine asked if I could teach her. It's not that I don't like her, but it's just that I don't know her well enough to know that she won't sell it or start giving them away willy-nilly. Then again, I don't know this girl well enough to say that she WILL end up selling the kandi. So I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. So how do YOU react when people ask you to teach them how to make kandi, whether it be your best friend, or a complete stranger?

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Dec 14, 2014 5:10 pm
I tell people, "Maybe, someday.." And then never do. I thought myself. And I feel if people really want to learn, they can go online or something. But that's just me.
Dec 13, 2014 9:02 pm
I wouldn't really be sure how to react. I mean, this is my friend that's asking me. If I did teach someone how to make kandi I would have to teach them everything I know about the Rave culture. After all first things first. If they don't want to know about the Rave culture then I would have to say no. I'm not trying to be mean when I say no. I just don't want to teach someone that won't be patient and learn about the importance of the culture that kandi originates from. To put it simple, I don't just teach anyone to make kandi without my teachings of being a Kandi Kid. big grin
Dec 10, 2014 5:03 am
confused.
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Dec 1, 2014 6:11 pm
Four of my friends asked me how to make kandi,its a little overwhelming but you know, they're my best buddies.Then after a while people would ask me to make them, so just recently I've been told to start selling kandi and make money so I cake's buy more beads;make.a.little profit out of my hobby.IDK ,just TOO overwhelming.I said that Id teach them too, but my friends are kind of dopey and I don't think I'll have enough patience.Bad, I know. Think I'll just teach them the very basic and go off from there if they're still interested. happy Good luck with your "teachings" as well. big grin
Sep 15, 2013 12:38 pm
People ask me for kandi all the time. I usually make singles for people. I only make cuffs and peyotes for close friends and family. People don't ask me to teach them, but they do ask how I make my cuffs. I usually explain and then they get confused. xD If a random person asked me to teach them, I would just tell them youtube videos and channels to look at where they teach you that stuff. .__. But if a friend asked me, I would try to teach them myself. cx
Sep 12, 2013 8:12 pm
I typically respond well to teaching others to make Kandi. The thing is kandi is whatever you want it to be, weather you pour your heart into it or make it because you had nothing better to do is determined by yourself. If they choose to sell it they may, because never has there ever been a binding law that states they cannot. Once they've been taught they grow and do as they please. Like children in a way. I don't think you should let that bother you. It's out of your hands. Ask yourself the real question. Is this hunting you so bad that it inner fears with your daily life? If not its most likely not important.
Aug 19, 2013 10:38 pm
i would teach them if they absolutely wanted to know whether it be stranger or best friend. c:
Aug 18, 2013 5:11 pm
Oh goodness, I wasn't expecting this question to be on the first page of the boards, considering I posted it nearly a year ago, but I'd just like to mention that when I wrote this question, my mentality about things I liked was much more... undeveloped, I guess you could say. Whenever I became interested in something, I immediately became protective over it, and if anyone became interested in it, it was *my* thing, and how dare they like *my* thing. It wasn't a very nice way to act about things I liked. Since then, though, I've definitely relaxed about my fandoms or interests, considering it was a very childish mentality to have~! Honestly, now when most people ask me about kandi, I love to explain what it is, how to make very basic things, and I even direct them to this website, or YouTube tutorials and things like that~ The only thing that ever irks me anymore about kandi is when people ask or tell me to sell my kandi. Other than that, I love to spread the kandi-making love around whenever I can! ^-^ I guess I'm just posting this as advice to any future people who read this and think the same way I did. The worst thing that could happen after showing someone how to make kandi is that they end up selling it (if you don't like selling kandi). But that's their choice anyway, so don't fret about it too much~ Life is too short to be so possessive about things such as this~
Aug 17, 2013 9:22 pm
i say: "just do what i did and look it up on youtube"
Aug 16, 2013 10:51 pm

I haven't had strangers ask me to teach them. I have taught friends just because we like to hang out and do fun things together. Yes, they are aware there are tutorials and a plethora of info online, it's just fun for some reason and we end up making some really cool/goofy stuff. What the people you teach do with their kandi is their own thing and you might as well live and let live. I have also taught one of the girls I babysit because I can see she is a creator and I want to encourage her to use her talent and to realize she indeed has it. My experience has been pretty positive so far with teaching others.