I cant find people to trade/make kandi with ;_;

Laurel 9/26/2015 03:19 pm 4555

so I have been making kandi for a little over a year, and it's been hard for me to find people to trade or make kandi with. I started my first year of high school, and I have probably seen one or 2 people with what looks like kandi, but I think i might have social anxiety, because it's so hard for me to approach and ask them... so should I just wear my kandi around and see if other people can find me? Or do I try and teach some friends how to? Or should I wait till I get out of high school? ANY suggestions? kao confused

(If you do answer, I really do appreciate it, thank you so much.beating heart)

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Dec 20, 2015 10:38 am

You should wear your kandi out at school and in public, that way people can find you. It might be a good idea to see if your friends want to learn too! c: I learned from my best friend, and I've met some cool people by showing my kandi.

Dec 16, 2015 10:51 pm

I make kandi in school all the time lol. I started in my freshman year too.

My friends think they're cool and I give some to them as gifts. So that's probably the best option, especially if you are somewhere where raves are not common or popular

Nov 29, 2015 3:16 pm

Wear your kandi around and flaunt the crap out of that stuff. I LOVE making kandi. I would make it in school sometimes. People will see you making it and they will ask you about it or tell you it looks really cool. Based on how interested they seem when they approach you, then you can go from there and start talking about it and possibly get them into it. So many of my friends love how I make kandi they think its so cool and unique and that makes me feel special. You support what you love, and people will start to love it with you. thumbsuprainbowsmiledance

Nov 28, 2015 4:50 pm

just be you and spread the PLUR!!! I have 2 daughters in high school and they wear the ones we make

Nov 28, 2015 7:57 am

I trade with you I don't mindhkheart


Nov 23, 2015 2:18 pm

Wait till you have enough courage! I was the same.blush

Nov 21, 2015 6:53 pm

i would love to trade with you!!!!!!!!!!!! and if you think your friends would like it then at least try it never hurts to try!


Nov 21, 2015 4:45 pm

I guess your not the only one who doesn't have people to trade with ;c; I only made one trade in my whole life and it was with somebody that I didn't even knew. But atleast I have the kandi the person traded with me like in a box of my stuff that hasn't got here. But hey! more friends the merrier! rainbowsmile

Nov 21, 2015 12:52 am

if you see someone with kandi, compliment them on it. That could start a conversation and get you a new friend. Dont call it kandi though because they may not be into it, just wearing the bracelets

"Hey i like your bracelet, did you make it?"

I know those social anxiety feels bruh i really do big time. Hang in there because people arent as threatening as they seem in your head

Oct 6, 2015 3:46 pm

maybe you could do it over skype or another video chat provider? that's where i do all my kandi making with others. rainbowsmile