i need to know, am i a chaser? (tw)

_zombicorix 11/25/2023 06:03 pm 849

so uhhh this feels awkward but this seems like a safe space with lots of trans ppl, and i saw another thread about racism so i thought this was ok? idk. i just wanna know and feel weird at the possibility of me being a trans chaser.

if you dont know what that is, it means a person (usually cis) that dates or “chases” exclusively trans people for gross reasons like f3ti$hiz@ti0n. i myself find in between trans and cis, since i have an idea that my gender is mostly feminine aligned while being AFAB.

i always just find trans people more attractive than cis people, idk why. like i have a preference for people who dont fit heteronormative stereotypes. like fem guys and such. i totally understand that trans men and men and trans women are women, no matter what, but they fall into this preference too. i have a transmasc/man (idk what he prefers and lets call him purple) whos like REALLY attractive. like REAAAAALLY. i wanna kiss him so badddd. i also have another trans friend who i think i have a crush on? idk i have a hard time differentiating platonic from romantic.

a reason this worries me is that i know a boy irl (lets call him fish) who is a chaser. he has hit on and nearly asked out every transmasc (or boy) in school including my previously mentioned friend, purple (who barely know each other). fish also used to date another trans boy friend (emphasis on the space), smoke (not real name). he messed up smoke reaaaal bad, like really. fish is now in one of my classes and i kinda talk to him? idk i feel bad about it.

im so scared im like fish and am a chaser. like id hate to be gross about trans people. do yall think im a chaser? if so, how can i improve? please im too scared to ask my friends about this because itd be just weird.