questioning is..fun-

cyber_wrld 8/19/2023 06:56 pm 266

Yall ever, like, start questioning your sexuality or gender then just

ignore it

because you dont wanna deal with it

im nb and ive known for several years and im usually pretty sure and set on it, but every now and then i question and get a little confused. it was mostly in the beggining, where id be like "no, im not actually nonbinary. im just a female." or "ill just say im a girl, its easier. people will understand it better." but lately ive been thinking i might actually be gender fluid- im not sure, and sometimes im like nah but the thought pops into my head occasionally and im confused. ive been so sure for so long, i really dont wanna be confused rn-

ive also been very sure im lesbian for a few years, but lately im like maybe im bi? but that might just be comphet-

lmk your questioning struggles!!

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Zombpuppies
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Aug 19, 2023 7:14 pm

Questioning your being like that is very normal, and you should welcome it! its hard to deal with sometimes, but trying to fully figure out who you are is best. it took me yearrrrs to figure out who I was and its much better to take your time!

whether you turn out to be lesbian or bi, nb or genderfluid, you deserve to know who you are more than anything! experiment with your being, your bodys a temple and it should be built the way you want

Pinky
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Aug 19, 2023 7:09 pm

@vviolett: I feel that lmao

There was a point in 7th grade where I thought I was trans masc and now I’m like EXTREMELY feminine and hate the idea of he/him

Currently demigirl they/she but might be girlflux??

cyber_wrld
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Aug 19, 2023 7:09 pm

@vviolett: wow, seems like youve had a crazy label journey! ive never heard of genderblur, would you mind explaining what it means for you?

Mama_WeAllGo2Hell
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Aug 19, 2023 7:07 pm

ok prepare for a lot of explanation.

a while back when i first started questioning my gender (i was 11 or 12, i think?) and i came to the conclusion that i was genderfluid. then after a while i thought "hm, i never really feel like a boy though, so i guess im a demigirl?" and then not too long after that i thought i was enby, then i thought i was transmasc, then demiflux, then demiboy , then transmasc boyflux, then transmasc again, then transmasc nonbinary, then nonbinary genderfluid, and now i identify as genderblur. yes yes, i know its a lot lolz- be glad i didnt even get into the sexual/romantic orientation stuff and now i wanna say all the stuff i currently identify as so why not lolz- genderblur agnoromantic aegosexual hypersexual (they/xe/ze/dead/he) >:3

Pinky
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Aug 19, 2023 7:06 pm

@cyber_wrld: omg Ty this really helps me feel like less of a shitty person

cyber_wrld
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Aug 19, 2023 7:03 pm

@Pinky: its okay, i understand the struggle. but i dont think its transphobic, youre just experimenting and figuring yourself out! youre allowed to test out different labels and see what feels right as you get to know yourself as a person ^^

Pinky
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Aug 19, 2023 7:00 pm

aggghghghghhhb I thought I was envy for a while and now I’m a Demi girl and now idk if maybe I’m just cis?? But I keep thinking like is it transphobic to have thought I was not cis and now know I’m cis? Then I keep thinking wait but I love they/them pronouns and I hate Miss. like maybe I’m not cis? Maybe I am? Helppppp

Might del this comment tbh

questioning is..fun-

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