AITA? (am I the *cencoring this :P* hole?)

ChaosCubeCouncil 11/13/2022 12:14 pm 731

So I'm Trans, right? I'm also Enby/demi, so I have diff pronouns than alot of ppl use for me/my AGAB. And I have Trans, Genderfluid, Demi-girl, and Pangender friends, and they all use different pronouns than their AGAB pronouns. But my parents don't know I'm Trans or and of that crap because they're Homophobic (they're fine with g@y and that crap but they say that kids can't be Ace or G@u because "nOt ThAt MaNy PeOpLe ArE gAy" so they're fine w MLM, WLW, and maybe Bi? But they say anything else is fake) and Transphobic. Basically if I so much as mention or look at something remotley rainbow, they flip the frick out. So with said parents, I have to mis-gender/dead-name my friends and/or people from the internet that use diff labels/names. I feel SO crappy after and it feels like I wanna pull a Mufasa on myself (if u know u know XD) and I REALLY wanna know if I'm in the wrong, cause I don't do it because I don't support! But I just don't wanna get ME and/or THEM in trouble, you know? I do this w/ alot of stuff; I'm an Athiest from RT but I pretend to be Cristian infront of my parents so I feel like I'm faking alot, and I say I'm not disabled infront of them when I am bc they're Abelist lol so I feel like I fake it alot too, so am I in the wrong for pretending to be on the side of things I'm not really on???