i’m lesbian but now i like a dude???

Deleted Account 5/29/2022 04:34 am 252

so i’ve identified as a lesbian for almost a year. i definitely feel romantically attracted to girls, and not romantically attracted to guys. BUT there is one boy who i like a ton. bi, pan, omni, and poly don’t feel like the right labels for me (and i have tried them in the past). i’m losing it

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May 29, 2022 4:50 am

Sexuality is complicated. But i also think that people can get too carried away with labelling themselves - even though when it's on your mind, I know it can be hard to forget about. the only advice i can give is that it's important to not let labels define you. i've heard some people talk about e.g. only liking the opposite gender but there being an exception for one person. that sounds a lot like what you're going through but the opposite way. i think that sexuality can be fluid, and that might be what you're experiencing.

and i wish you luck! hopefully you can get him to like you back. blush