New forum rules? Opinions wanted

Crumpet 10/25/2021 01:08 pm 1537

As many of you know, there was some drama in the forum over the weekend. Up until now, my attitude was to allow all discussions (except for the small list of forbidden ones: self harm, violence, eating disorders, suicide, doxxing, and kandi trades) and try to delete threads as little as possible, basically only if I received several reports for it and it was clearly causing problems. After this weekend, I'm questioning that. I don't want to shut down legitimate discussions about identities, but I also don't want this to be a toxic place where people get so upset that they feel they have to delete their accounts. We're here to talk about kandi, not fight with each other.

How would you all prefer that the moderators handle things? I'll give you a few options, but you can also propose other ideas if you have any:

1) Continue on as we are, rarely deleting anything
2) Continue to allow all posts, but delete any which may cause drama or are already causing drama
3) Delete all threads about certain topics.... but which topics? Maybe identity-related discourse and anything that obviously invalidates anyone?

I'm logging off shortly because I live in England and it's almost my bedtime, but I will read any replies tomorrow. Thank you kao smile

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Oct 25, 2021 5:57 pm

I think that 2 seems to be the best bc while three does seem to be safer i think that some people might have like identity/sexuality questions and since there are a lot of LGBTQ+ folk here I think that the questions would get better answers :]

Oct 25, 2021 5:56 pm

#2

Oct 25, 2021 5:06 pm

2 i think is the saf3st choic3! love

  • Xxstickit2mexX
Oct 25, 2021 4:53 pm

id say 2

Oct 25, 2021 4:46 pm

i think 2 is a good optionrainbowsmile

Oct 25, 2021 4:45 pm

seems like just about everyone is on the same page about #2! which i also think is the best option

Oct 25, 2021 4:42 pm

2 iz (is) a good option cheer

Oct 25, 2021 2:31 pm

2 100%

Oct 25, 2021 2:12 pm

Imo, Keep the rules about no heavy topics and if drama starts to show delete the forum.

Getting rid of all discussions about identity is kinda bad bc a lot of people are comfortable asking questions on here and a lot of people bond over it too.

  • kipippy
Oct 25, 2021 1:57 pm

2 is definitely the way to go! rainbowsmile