sorta controversial topic that i want to see what people think about it

_n0t_sur3_ 9/9/2021 01:15 pm 1227

Is not dating a trans person transphobic?

I think not because what if someone wants kids, trans people (except trans men if they dont get the surgery) cant have children.
It could also be a genital preferance. If a trans man doesnt have a ----- maybe a gay man or a straight women doesnt want that when it comes to intimacy. Same thing follows for trans women without a ------. I want to see what you all think. Please try to be civil

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V4MP1RE_GUTZZ
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Sep 9, 2021 1:43 pm

idc if somebody doesn't wanna date me cuz i'm trans, everybody has a preference! and i respect that. but it's when they INSULT me or try to verbally or psychically ATTACK me after i tell them i'm trans that there's going to be a problem. it's one thing to just have a preference and just be respectful, but it's another thing when someone gets mad at trans people for not meeting their standards

so no, not wanting to date a trans person isn't really transphobic because nobody should be forced to date someone in order to not be seen as an asshole. but it's transphobic to hate a trans person for not being the cis person of your dreams

merbyler
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Sep 9, 2021 2:34 pm

I think that’s fine. I personally don’t have a preference about it because I’m pan but I think it’s a preference thing really.

I_clover_I
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Sep 9, 2021 3:01 pm

it's a case to case basis

sometimes people won't date trans people because they don't believe them to be "real" men/women, or they think that it'll make them "gay" (and we all know that being gay is the worst thing imaginable/s)

BUT

it's completely fine to not date a trans person because of a genital preference, because in a lot of relationships adult fun time is a really big thing, and it's important to have a partner that can satisfy you.

Gay
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Sep 16, 2021 9:37 am

no I don't think so. You don't HAVE to date us. Just respect us it all that I ask

XxbloodyloveheartzxX
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Sep 16, 2021 5:41 pm

not dating a trans prson bc ur not attracted to them? totally fine!

not dating a trans prson bc of a genital pref? also fine!

not dating a trans prson bc u dont believe theyre actually their gender or think theyre just their agab? awful!

brain_muncher
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Sep 16, 2021 7:40 pm

its only transphobic when you don date someone because they are trans or do not think they are the gender they say they are

genital preferance and shit like that is fine though

andrewshotboyfriend
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Sep 17, 2021 4:05 am

not dating bc were trans and bc of that you see us as our AGAB? transphobic

not dating bc you just dont wanna date a person who has genitals youre not attracted to? fine

merbyler
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Sep 17, 2021 4:31 am

@n3onw0rmi: why did someone dislike this..? Sorry if I worded something wrong

merbyler
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Sep 17, 2021 4:31 am

@n3onw0rmi: why did someone dislike this..? Sorry if I worded something wrong

wenisdrinker
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Sep 17, 2021 4:45 am

if you refuse to date a trans person simply because theyre trans youre transphobic, if you dont wanna date sum1 just because youre not attracted to them or whatever isnt. also the whole thing with kids doesnt really make sense, most of the people that say they wouldnt date trans women since they cant reproduce would date an infertile cis woman. idk if this makes sense or not but rainbow afroken

sorta controversial topic that i want to see what people think about it

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