sorta controversial topic that i want to see what people think about it

_n0t_sur3_ 9/9/2021 01:15 pm 1229

Is not dating a trans person transphobic?

I think not because what if someone wants kids, trans people (except trans men if they dont get the surgery) cant have children.
It could also be a genital preferance. If a trans man doesnt have a ----- maybe a gay man or a straight women doesnt want that when it comes to intimacy. Same thing follows for trans women without a ------. I want to see what you all think. Please try to be civil

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Sep 9, 2021 3:01 pm

it's a case to case basis

sometimes people won't date trans people because they don't believe them to be "real" men/women, or they think that it'll make them "gay" (and we all know that being gay is the worst thing imaginable/s)

BUT

it's completely fine to not date a trans person because of a genital preference, because in a lot of relationships adult fun time is a really big thing, and it's important to have a partner that can satisfy you.


Sep 9, 2021 2:34 pm

I think that’s fine. I personally don’t have a preference about it because I’m pan but I think it’s a preference thing really.

Sep 9, 2021 1:43 pm

idc if somebody doesn't wanna date me cuz i'm trans, everybody has a preference! and i respect that. but it's when they INSULT me or try to verbally or psychically ATTACK me after i tell them i'm trans that there's going to be a problem. it's one thing to just have a preference and just be respectful, but it's another thing when someone gets mad at trans people for not meeting their standards

so no, not wanting to date a trans person isn't really transphobic because nobody should be forced to date someone in order to not be seen as an asshole. but it's transphobic to hate a trans person for not being the cis person of your dreams