TW: How do you all cope with Dysphoria drop em down below

Tylers_Pretty_Rad 9/2/2021 01:06 pm 2160

I was just hoping these could help me or anyone else looking for ways

For me (a completely closeted person)

-Do any gender-conforming things that help

-Honestly sleep

-Draw me as I hope others will one day see me

-Write myself letters

-Act out an introduction in the mirror where I use name/pronouns

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Sep 11, 2021 10:12 am

PLAYING GUITARRRRRRRRRRRR

also wearing my gender euphoria outfit helps but i dont have any reason to wear it if i have the time to focus on dysphoria and try to cope with it (aka if im at school i wont be able to wear it, and if im not at school i have no reason to really dress myself)

blanket burrito

talking to my trans friends happy and my gf

Sep 11, 2021 9:52 am

if im at home, I’ll just wrap myself up in a blanket and a baggy shirt/hoodie so I can’t see my body then distract myself with comfort streamers/youtubers and I also like to imagine what I’ll look like after transitioning. i am a trans guy, but this could maybe work for trans fems too?????? idk lmaooo. that’s here now if you think this will work for you regardless of your gender /gen /pos

  • trickster_brostrider
Sep 11, 2021 9:12 am

sometimes when I have rlly bad chest dysphoria I stuff my bra with like, triple padding and put a sports bra over it. then I take a bunch of selfies and immediatly take everything off because I have horrible sensory issues and can't wear that shit for more then 5 minutes, but I look cute in the pics xd

Sep 11, 2021 9:10 am

i talk to my gf and they are very <3

having a support group of friends is very cool

also i just. make jokes about it

before I cut my hair i'd keep it in ponytails so that it looked shorter when lookin straight on in the mirror? idk that helped a bit

also petting my cat cause she's so good i love her

Sep 11, 2021 3:54 am

i don't have any coping skills crying

i just get mad at the world and sob and hide in my crusty bedroom for as long as I possibly can, I fall asleep and then wake up and listen to music and cry and be jealous of all the trans boys at my school who actually pass as boys kao cry

this has been going on every. single. day. for as long as I can remember

Sep 10, 2021 11:26 pm

i pretend i do not see it rainbowsmilerainbowsmilerainbowsmilethen i look at myself in thr mirror and CRY

Sep 9, 2021 8:54 am

i listened to boys will be bugs by cavetown on loop for about 7 hours cuz of dysphoria one time

Sep 7, 2021 5:15 pm

i sometimes like to use pronouns dressing room to help with my dysphoria lolz, i like to draw when i feel dysphoric (not just vent art, just drawing in general) and honestly just put a blanket over myself, listen to music, and sob LMAO been doing that since i first started feeling dysphoric xD

Sep 7, 2021 3:32 pm

I like to talk about it to my genderqueer friends!!

Sep 7, 2021 2:14 pm

i talk to my online friends, cause they use my name + pronouns