how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6779

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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Jul 27, 2021 6:12 am

what is pup gender and boy flux?/gen

Jul 27, 2021 4:00 am

i went through many labels since like 4th grade to see which one fit and i think i finally got them??? i basically just went onto the lgbta wiki and either just scrolled through the genders mindlessly picking ones and going to ones i do know and looking at genders they refer to, but what helped me the most was looking through the comments to one of them and seeing how other people felt and then going to the genders that people had recommended to them and then doing that over and over until i finally found something !!

sometimes i still struggle with pronouns like he/him cuz sometimes it sounds too like *man* he/him than the he/him i want HAHDCNV

Jul 27, 2021 3:55 am

i was bullied heavily for lookin and acting masc in the 5th grade so i was bullied but also bullied myself into believing i was trans. My mother told me i would always be a girl so i curved being trans, i struggled really hard with who i was until i finally accepted that something was up with me in the 7th grade. i went by she/they, then discovered i was nonbinary. im now in the 11th grade and believe im genderfluid, it feels right. I like to go by they/it and then she/he when i feel masc or fem but i too found my genders under the fridge

Jul 26, 2021 10:15 pm

i got mine on etsy

  • strawberrybrostrider
Jul 26, 2021 9:38 pm

hour 3 of stalking mogaipedia. suddenly, I find it.

genderdox, a mathgender, being simotaniously infinite genders and genderless at the same time. a paradox.

bechacan imagine how creative the poem was

Jul 26, 2021 7:28 pm

well you see I was looking for hours about to give up when my mom said "have you checked under the fridge?" and there it was, so thats how I found my gender

Jul 26, 2021 7:23 pm

my journey was kind of like a rollercoaster.

so i used to deny being anything that wasnt my agab, then i identified as masc-nonbinary in the 7th grade, then basic trans man in 8th grade, then a mix in 9th grade, then for the entire 10th grade it kept changing (trans man to confusion to transmasc to trans man again to transmasc again to confusion again) and where i am is where i was at the end of that.

i looked at the gender wikis one day at like 2am or something and it was like my eyes were opened. so here i am as corpsegender, pupgender (pupmascgender specifically), and a lot more. its kind of cozy knowing who i am now (if that makes sense)

Jul 26, 2021 7:22 pm

I thought I was cis for a while but got uncomfy with she/her, so I started using she/they and identified as a demigirl. But I felt uncomfortable with being even remotely a girl, and my friend [on here!!] helped me. I identify as nonbinary right now, but I’ve started to wonder if demiboy might fit because he/him pronouns seem like they could fit me- idk though, lo

Jul 26, 2021 6:37 pm

i kinda always knew i wasnt fully a girl so i used demigirl a bit, but i didnt like she/her so i used genderqueer, that didn't feel right either, so i just did nonbinary for a bit. i remember my dad calling me genderfluid when i was younger cuz somedays i like being a guy, some days i was a girl, some both and some neither so i just used that and they/them pronouns so that's where i am now. i think that's it for now too tho cuz that feels right to me lol.