how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6787

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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branarbi
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Aug 10, 2021 1:06 pm

I learned what being trans was when i was like 12/13, and I started IDing as nonbinary when I was 14! I started using he/they + questioning if I were transmasc at the start of 2020, and I'm still kinda questionng tbh, but now I use he/they AND several neopronouns (it/its, end/ends, voi/voids)!

cobrastarship
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Aug 10, 2021 11:21 am

started in 5th grade when i was getting recommended videos about transgender people. i watched a lot of them and it made me question. i was like “i don’t want to be a girl. i don’t feel like a girl. i wish i was a boy.” my deadname made me feel uncomfortable too so yeah.

kandikid0w0
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Aug 10, 2021 10:03 am

personally always saw myself as a bit of everything , even as a kid playing pretend i would often be shifting my role.its just something that i has stayed with me . only like a few years ago i found the term genderfluid and agender kinda put my self there(back and forth :,) ) because non-binary didnt really fit for me and most really didnt feel too right .

doublezero
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Aug 4, 2021 3:43 pm

@inxxiety_: Luckyyyyyy

kingmushroomsz
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Aug 4, 2021 12:43 pm

I'm still pretty confused since my dysphoria is off-and-on, and I feel masc or fem depending on the day, so I'm thinking about genderfluid or unlabeled :3 I'm just kinda taking my time figuring it out

inxxiety_
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Aug 4, 2021 12:32 pm

i was born. and then i was like “i’m a boy? nice.” and yep. that’s the whole story

weirdcoretoastwr
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Aug 3, 2021 12:25 am

@moonbowNat: a specific microlabel of genderfluid for without fem genders is genderfaun! If it does have fem genders but never fully girl then that can be called genderfaunet

prettyraveg1rl
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Aug 2, 2021 5:59 pm

i haven't yet

ghostworms
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Aug 2, 2021 4:39 pm

it took me a while to figure out that im nonbinary. i dont feel nonbinary in any feminine way ig? i only feel masc, but not fully like a boy. like i don't feel completely real, completely a person. i have really bad mental illness and trauma that affected the way i see myself. if i wanna use neos i use ghost/ghostself bc that's what i feel like, a ghost. i feel like a guy who's only half there. maybe a demiboy? i feel like a gross little animal, like a grotesque machine made out of flesh. and that makes me feel really euphoric. i spent so long trying my very best just to feel like a person. it feels good to let myself be just a nasty worm. so i use he/it/they!!