how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6781

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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inxxiety_
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Aug 14, 2021 8:35 am

@doublezero: ig lol. i think its great that i dont have to go through all the difficult gender stuff, but i still wish i wasnt just so... p l a i n a n d b o r i n g. like non binarys, they get to tell u about the whole spectrum they r on and things that remind them of their gender and i have NOTHING.

some1_kill_till
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Aug 13, 2021 10:29 am

so uh... i think i might be a boy

oops

rrxequartz
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Aug 13, 2021 9:26 am

I stayed the same my whole life idk man

GasMask_Robot
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Aug 12, 2021 10:04 pm

One of my friends came out as MtF when I was in 4th grade (they were in 5th) which prompted me to question my gender for the following year and a half or so having only just learned about trans people from said friend coming out. At that point I only knew about binary trans ppl and didn't know being non binary was a thing (my friends would make fun of "other" options on forms and call that kind of thing wrong anyway). I remember wishing gender would stop existing so I wouldn't have to choose between being a guy or a girl. Then in like the middle of sixth grade I was filling out a science camp form and saw a "non binary" option 4 the first time. My grandma, being the liberal hippie lady she is, explained what it meant to me and instantly I knew that's what I was. I came out like 2 weeks later with a crappy animation I made after school lol. For a while I identified as a trans guy after that since I was honestly just desperate to not be seen as a girl (I unfortunately didn't go to the best middle school and was pretty much the only openly non binary person there so I had to deal with a good bit of bullying for being trans and force a lot of change myself) but realized I was right the first time. I don't know a lot about neopronouns to be honest but I just started trying out xe/xem pronouns in addition to they/them (in one discord server anyway XD). I don't know if I'll like xe/xem pronouns yet but I'm fairly confident I'll be sticking with non binary for a long time.

merbyler
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Aug 12, 2021 10:58 am

@Spectator: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Pupgender

Spectator
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Aug 12, 2021 10:39 am

also whats pupgender

Spectator
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Aug 12, 2021 10:39 am

i do not fit into the gender binary so i fall into the nonbinary category, of which i am agender

AceNeedsAlife
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Aug 11, 2021 11:35 pm

it disappeared one day then i realized. but actually ive always been uncomfy with having a body that wasnt just flat. and also hated my basic girl name. then i learned about non binary identies and dysphoria and thought "me, but im fine with part girl" so i stuck with demigirl for a bit then that got uncomfy. i just went broad with non-binary for abit, then went, nope actually my gender isnt all its none. so, agender, they/them. i like it

riot_hazard
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Aug 11, 2021 6:50 pm

Okay so In order we got. Girl, Genderfluid, Demiboy, Boy, Genderpunk/Genderqueer, Boy again, and now Very Unlabeled and very uncomfortable with everything lol