how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6629

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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Aug 15, 2021 12:31 pm

i have not found my gender, im currently resting at any pronouns or they/them. i still dont like it that much but it'll do. I'm too tired to try and figure it out lol

Aug 15, 2021 9:15 am

I am pangender, and I found out by writing down pronouns and crossing them out if I didn’t like when people used them. After a month I crossed out 0 pronouns. It was probably not a very good method to figure out my gender but, it worked.

Aug 14, 2021 10:40 pm

i first started with genderqueer during summer break in grade 7-8, then went as agender around October grade 8, and now i go by genderfaunet (starting in january this year) and started using xenogenders a couple days ago big grin

Aug 14, 2021 7:30 pm

nb in 6th then frank iero, male 7th

Aug 14, 2021 5:45 pm

last april i figured out i was nonbinary, and at the end of last year i started thinking i felt more masc, so i started using he/him along w my other prns and immediately someone got mad at me so i stayed just as a nonbinary person until probably around february(?) of this year when i started gender hoarding!! i stopped that for a while cuz i felt super invalid & just stuck w collecting neoprns until in june i started using he/him again bc its super gender!!! and now i hoard genders again n i'm an nb trans boy n gendercollector!!! (i also have a carrd w all the genders i have rn if anyone wants to see : D!!)

Aug 14, 2021 5:37 pm

it may sound bad but i found mine off a tiktok,,,

it was a tiktok explaining less used genders and i found out it fit me more than demiboy

Aug 14, 2021 4:51 pm

i went from like cis girl to demigirl to nonbinary to genderfluid ((now)) but i kinda feel like i wanna be a boy but the also a grl too like masc and fem at the same time also sorry if i write anything wrong hard to write on laptop in a dark room cant see keyboard

Aug 14, 2021 4:48 pm

i have no idea what gender i am cause like i feel like all genders at the same time

Aug 14, 2021 9:02 am

so I uh identified as nonbinary in 6th grade then by 7th I started questioning and by the end of 7th grade I felt most comfortable with she/her pronouns and in 8th grade I went back to nonbinary and now I feel most comfortable with being unlabeled and using she/ they pronouns bc honestly pretty much all labels make me uncomfortable

Aug 14, 2021 8:59 am

i started as identifying as genderqueer which gave me comfort since it was a wide label n i didnt know exactly how to express myself! then i slowly became more comfortable w the labels nonbinary and transmasc. throughout the first half of 2020 i only rlly id'd as a transmasc enby but i was a huge fan of xenogenders!!! i called myself genderpunk for a while n i liked that :3 still didnt feel like that fully expressed my gender bc it was complicated n i barely understood it myself so then i started calling myself agender! then one day i was scrolling htrough an ig account dedicated to xenogenders n i found joygender!!! it perfectly described my weird experience n it made me so happy! :3 big grinD