how'd you find ur gender !

boyflux 7/26/2021 06:10 pm 6749

it's been a long time but i think ive found myself =0

so i thought i was genderfluid in 4th grade, then questioned more from not having fem days , to demiboy, to neoboy, then gave up for a bit and identified with pupgender, then genderfaun or agender, and i finally settled on boyflux and pupgender in 8th grade! =DDD

i probably have a long way to go but this suits me alot and explains why i was questioning so many masculine genders!

id love to hear ur guy's stories byee!!

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Aug 24, 2021 11:16 am

i pretended to be a cool emo boy on animal jam and wondered why it felt so nice to have ppl use he/him on me <33

Aug 24, 2021 9:37 am

Well you see I was walking down the street and then someone stole it and I was super confused then I tried finding a new one and when I saw one in the store one day that I liked that felt right to me i took it [i am also figuring it out but i think this may be the one]

Aug 23, 2021 4:15 pm

idk i just found out im super comfy with being male so :3 yeah

Aug 23, 2021 1:12 pm

found mine in a local garbage facility

Aug 22, 2021 11:13 pm

someone on reddit said "It's not the amount of dysphoria that tells if your trans, it's the euphoria when someone genders you correctly." that is when it hit me haha. I was telling myself I wasn't valid because I didn't seem like some other people in the gender queer community. But I knew that being called a boy is lovely to me. :3

Aug 22, 2021 11:10 pm

I'm so proud of you! and i can relate. gender is a mushy weird thing but i'm glad to be ENBY Masc rn happyrainbowsmile

Aug 22, 2021 7:59 pm

tbh, I’m still figuring it out! I feel like a lot of labels fit like pupgender or agender. boy, dude, guy but not “man”.. but demiboy doesn’t feel right for me either, so i sort of refer to myself as a non-binary man happy

Aug 22, 2021 5:20 pm

I don’t actually remember lmao

I mean I identified as just transmasc for a while and I don’t remember where I found out abt that label but then I think I heard about nonbinary boys and basically I was like ooh yeah that’s me! Ig demiboy was kinda uncomfy and nonbinary boy is a similar ish label but it’s different and a whole lot more comfy for me lol

Aug 22, 2021 4:34 pm

i've never really identified with male or female so I felt like myself whenever I found about being nonbinary - I then did some research about neopronouns and mogai, and I realized I'm glitchgender big grin I go by they/them and voi/void/voidself

Aug 22, 2021 4:11 pm

SO BASICALLY FOR MY WHOLE LIFE I NEVER RELATED TO ANY GENDER BUT I WASNT EDUCATED SO I THOUGHT I HAD TO CHOOSE ONE AND THEN I FOUND OUT ABT BEING NON-BINARY AND I WAS LIKE YES