post your gender/pronouns and sexuality before quarantine and then now (caps)

merbyler 7/12/2021 02:09 pm 22789

before:

female, she/her (secretly wanted to use she/they but was too afraid to tell anyone), lesbian (BESTIE IDK WHY I IDENTIFIED AS A LESBIAN I WAS CONSTANTLY DROOLING OVER BOYS HUH??? i was an idiot geez)

now:

demiboy??? he/they/star, pansexual

I'm very glad i was introduced to neos I love them

why is this thread so popular lol

YOU GUYS BROUGHT IT BACK!!! HERE'S MY UPDATE

trans masc, he/they/pup/bun/star, gay!!

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_pastel_b0y_
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Nov 7, 2021 5:35 pm

before-female, male? she/her, he/him? bisexual

after- Trans male, Demiboy? he/they, pansexual?

JayWood
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Nov 7, 2021 4:50 pm

b4=she/they,omni with heavy pref for girls

now=he,they,xe +many neos (please ask about them pleas),questioning,

tea
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Nov 7, 2021 4:31 pm

before: female she/her bi?? ace/grace??

after: non binary/agender (idk man) they/them panromantic asexual (eventhosofaronlybeencrushingonmenbutamsometimeslike: omg cool female/enby person? imagine being friends or mOoREe + idrk if gender even rlly matters to me ykno anyywayyy)

-tea

S0ur_K4nd1
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Nov 7, 2021 4:14 pm

@rotten_meat: @glitched_user:

Alright! Thank You For Explaining! /pos

rotten_meat
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Nov 7, 2021 4:08 pm

@S0ur_K4nd1: id also like to piggy back off of the other person And say that sexuality is highly dependent on a binary being in place. And ya know, people outside of that binary exist so having any sort of firm rule of who's a lesbian or gay or whatever is lowkey kinda terfy. Especially because it'll come down to parts and appearance and even then not everyone is solely attracted to parts which makes sexuality even more bullshit- everyone has a different definition of attraction so it's one of those things that are up to everyone as an individual and that means if someone trans masc wants to be a lesbian they can be because nobody can define lesbian without accidentally being transphobic/objectifying/ straight up not being defining.

If you want a super long essay on it that I made its under a thread called "how does being a "girl" feel like" or something where I go into concepts like gender more lol, not rlly sexuality. I hoped this enlightened you a bit and helped you destroy the methods that cisgender people have told us to experience ourselves and the world

bythornethreat
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Nov 7, 2021 3:57 pm

@S0ur_K4nd1: transmasc doesn’t automatically mean male-aligned, so someone’s gender can be masculine/masculine leaning without being male or male aligned!!