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question about my sexuality / gender!

kira 6/24/2021 05:11 am 198

hi !! so, for a long time i’ve identified as a pansexual non-binary person, but recently, i’ve started to question that. i’m starting to think that i don’t have a s*xual attraction to men at all, maybe just a visual / aesthetic attraction ?? and i feel like i’m attracted to women / feminine leaning people more than anything.

so, my question is- would it be ok to call myself a panromantic lesbian as a non-binary person? if not, what could i call myself?? thank you!!

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Jun 24, 2021 5:42 am
Jun 24, 2021 6:17 am

honestly, and im not trying to be dismissive, so please excuse me if it comes across that way, i think maybe you might just be a nonbinary lesbian if there's no attraction to men past surface level. that being said i could be misreading and there's going to be plenty of time to figure it and yourself out, and i just really hope you find a label that works well and fits you because that's what matters

Jun 24, 2021 6:55 am
Jun 24, 2021 7:11 am

What I’m thinking is that you platonically like men and like women sexually and platonically, don’t know what’s that called but that’s what I take from this! Love your pfp btw, she’s my favorite artist ^^

Jun 24, 2021 9:03 am

@KrashKablamBlam: thank you !! i’ll look into that !!

Jun 24, 2021 9:04 am
@pinkdrinksoul: thank you, that’s kind of what i’m thinking as well ?? but i appreciate your support :,,)
Jun 24, 2021 9:04 am
@lesbian: this is very informative!! thank you!!
Jun 24, 2021 9:05 am
@BonBonGutz: yeah i think so too !!! and aww thank you !!! i love her stuff a lot :,,)