trans sadness

fangs 6/10/2021 09:11 pm 801

Any other gay trans people really wish they could have had that classic gay awakening that people always talk about. The cute storybook thing where you just fall in love with some person and realize you're gay. Instead I just had to deal with a ton of dysphoria until I figured out what being trans was and that just so happened to mean I was gay. I dream all the time about the perfect realizing story that feel like it was out of a book but I can't have that because I was born like this and it just makes me so very sad.

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Jun 10, 2021 9:15 pm

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Jun 10, 2021 11:20 pm

Yes. I feel like I've missed out on so many experiences throughout my life, and not even having a sort of typical "trans realization" gives me so much hatred towards myself for being trans it's insane because I would literally kill to be a cis man having a stereotypical gay awakening instead of it just being a by-product.