we need to have a talk about he/him lesbians, she/her gays and neoprns.

ghostburkinnie 4/9/2021 07:55 pm 1031

for starters, this will NOT be hating on he/him lesbians, she/her gays or neoprn users!!! i love everyone (both /r and /p)!! this is simply going to talk about the hate against them <3


2, if you're cis, YOU CAN'T SAY SHIT. if you are cis, you can NOT speak about he/him lesbians, or she/her gays. you can't speak about neoprns (in a hateful way). you are not trans. you can't speak for the trans community either!! or and trans community, you can't speak for the lesbians/gays unless you are one. that's FINAL. if it doesn't apply to you, you can't say shit.

3. he/him lesbians and she/her gays,, AREN'T TRANS! whoa, shocker i know/s, they are not trans. pronouns don't equal gender. how do you think neos work? just because someone uses cat prns doesn't mean their a fucking cat.

4. "hE/hIm LeSbIaNs, NeOpRn UsErS aNd ShE/hEr GaYs ArE jUsT sOmEtHiNg TiKtOk MaDe Up!!!!" omfg you couldn't be anymore WRONG. what does the white line in ALL VERSIONS OF THE LESBIAN/GAY FLAG STAND FOR??? UNIQUE. RELATIONSHIPS. TO. WOMEN/MANHOOD. he/him lesbians and she/her gays have existed before tiktok was thing, hell before musically was a thing, no even before fucking VINE was a thing. they have existed for decades.

5. people can identify and have whatever kinda sexuality they want. you're straight? cool!! you're a lesbian? pog!! you're pan? cool!! you use he/him? beautiful! you use it/it's? me too!! prns and sexualitys have NO limits!! go crazy!! have fun!! expreiment!


alright that's all. if you don't support neoprn users, he/him lesbians or she/her gays, get tf off my page, or francily, get off this website and all social media, and go touch some grass <3 thx!! (btw: to all my neoprn users, he/him lesbians and she/her gays,,, marry me?/p)

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Apr 9, 2021 8:34 pm

I'm only asking because I can't figure it out for the life of me, what does bi lesbian mean? I've been seeing it pop up here and there but I hacen't found any definitions.

Apr 9, 2021 8:46 pm

@Keroppi: i suppose it means bi woman/fem person. however this term is damaging to both bisexual and lesbian communities! it implies bi ppl should pick a side and that lesbians will "find a man". just say u have a preference for women tbh

Apr 9, 2021 8:54 pm

@sprout: Yeah that's kinda what I was thinking. I looked into it a little more and it seems like the definitions are either transphobic or redundant. Bi-lesbian is an oxymoron. I do agree with the rest of the post, but that part is just a reach from what I can tell.

Apr 9, 2021 9:44 pm

YES THANK YOU! I'm a trans boy and I use he/it but sometimes I feel like I'm not using the right pronouns and this really helped.

Apr 9, 2021 11:03 pm

i personally believe he/him and they/them lesbians are valid as long as they identify as a woman in one way or another, since pronouns don't always equal gender! i identify as female and lesbian, but my preferred pronouns are he/him!!

  • righ
Apr 9, 2021 11:12 pm

it/its pronouns are chill but neopronouns like kitten/kittenself are kinda weird since not everybody is comfortable with calling you somethign thats used in k/nks ??

  • righ
Apr 9, 2021 11:26 pm

also i dont think this is the right place to talk abt discourse and such?? like this is deadass a braclet pattern website lmao,,

Apr 10, 2021 5:41 am

@righ: they might sound weird but they do make some ppl feel a lot more comfortable in their identity than other pronouns !! and just bc they are used in kinks doesn’t mean everyone uses them in a kinky way <3

Apr 10, 2021 5:41 am

also i appreciate this post sm

Apr 10, 2021 6:57 am

@righ: it's... a prn,,, kitten in literally the name of a animal. a petname. it's not something that's with kinks.. wtf.