can i wear anime shirts , kandi and cosplay to middle school

bvckybarnes 1/6/2021 09:28 am 1590

so im a mega weeb and also love makeing kandi when im bored and im going back to inperson on next thursday stuff like kandi and a big comfy mha shirt can be the only thing keeping me from a panic attack somedays but ive always been bulied and mis gendered at school and holy crap ive heard horrer storys about middle school normaly on zoom i can get a nice pswg or danganronpa pfp and hide behind a computer but now i have to go to to school and i know i want to go to school in a cosplay as its not in violation of the dress code from what ive read it said nothing on wigs or makeup but im afraid ill get bullied even more kids also seem to be terified of me if they dont know me at all cus of how quiet i always am and i dont think takeing myy adhd pills at the frirst of first period cus i frogot isnt the best thing for me to be doing i know anime is more populer and stuff now than it was 10 years ago but im also scared teachers will dress code me if they think the japaness on a shirt i may be wearsing could be gang sings as most of my teachers are boomers i pretty much just need some elp here edit: im haveing trouble respond to you comments im sorry

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Jan 6, 2021 9:38 am

Ur tottaly can wear anime shirts and kandi! But I'm unsure about cosplay. And don't let bulies bring you down!heart bounce Btw what's your pronous? big grin


Jan 6, 2021 9:39 am

@f4t_r4t: he him im ftm

Jan 6, 2021 10:01 am

im in middle school too, ive been doing online school so i havent worn kandi or any animes shirts, but before covid i did wear anime shirts and i wanna say i didnt get in comments.. but if ppl are chill at ur school, go for it! and if they arent, f them still where whatever u want, youre ur own boss

Jan 6, 2021 10:01 am

you should be able to wear anime shirts and kandi! while i wouldnt recommend large pieces, i have a set of five or six singles i wear everyday and its never been a problem. as 4 cosplay, even if you cant wear the whole fit you can always reference the character in small ways, by wearing a certain color scheme or similar makeup. i hope it works out!! <3

Jan 6, 2021 10:03 am

@ilovemisa: also maybe have a bag like a makeup bag if ur hands get tired of the kandi cuz ik those tiny beads get heavy :0

Jan 6, 2021 10:30 am

hm maybe not big cuffs maybe some smaller cuffs? i usally bring my singles and some small cuffs but i wear anime shirts and kandi and no one says anything i think u shoulf be fine!

Jan 6, 2021 10:32 am

if you have social anxiety, going in cosplay is definetly not for you. my advice is to get a friend to be close to you so they can stand up for you if nessecary. practice comebacks if you think you need to, but the most important thing is to be confident and remember that other people arent worth your time and energy. good luck !! xx

Jan 6, 2021 12:07 pm

@second_boy: ye i dont have any full outfits so thats all my cosplays i often feel better in cosplay im just scared to get stuff pulled and ripped

Jan 6, 2021 12:10 pm
@ilovemisa: i always have a fanny pack for figet toys so thaats not a prblum
Jan 6, 2021 12:15 pm
@jolyne_irl: i actuly feel alot better abt myself in cosplay i just dont want things getting snached and riped