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i doubt chu will b bullied 4 kandi and even if chu do... WHO CAREZ!!!!! i know their wordz hurt in da moment but think 2 urself "who cares abt mean pplz opinion of meh, when have they eva been tru or right??"

CHU GOT THIS >:3 I BELIEVE IN UR PERSERVERANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i understand what its like to be scared to wear it believe it or not- but once i finally did nobody other than people that liked my kandi said anything. but also, let me tell u this, if someone calls u smth, & u believe its true abt urself, just embrace it! for expample, i get called weird but i know i am so i just say thank u to whomever called me weird, even if its someone i dont know or my family! lol basically what im trying to say is try not to let their words bother u too much, & its okay if ur bothered, just try to embrace it if its smth u believe abt urself or that u are

I feel like you totally should do it bc, (at least in my experience) u could totally make friends because I bet there are def other ppl at you school that are worried about the same thing, and maybe by u being urself (which is wat is best to do anyway ) u might give other ppl the hope that they could be themselves too!!,!,

I think you'll get compliments. So do it!

The way I see it, if you are already being bullied, there’s no point in trying to please them by not wearing what you like/what makes you happy. The unfortunate truth is that some people will be horrible to others no matter who they are or what they do. It is always a reflection of the bully, not the actual person being bullied. Speaking from experience, I’ve spent years trying to be someone I am not & hiding parts of myself to seem more desirable to others. What happened then? Those same people chose another thing to put me down for. You just can’t win with people like that, & it’s very hard to change people’s minds. The best thing you can do is to unapologetically be yourself; it takes away that control they have over you.

You can slowly ease into it, like just wearing some cuffs to school at first. Slowly building up the confidence to be yourself without caring what others think is hard & takes time, but I think it will be very worth it if it makes you happy. You never know, other people in your school might also want to dress in a similar way but are scared to as well!

In my experience, schools typically do not do a lot about bullying which absolutely sucks. However, if you are being harassed or feel threatened in any way please tell someone & be persistent about it. If you’re able to, have an adult call the school. That scared them enough to sometimes do something about it in my experience. I used to try being witty in response to bullies or people messing with me, but trust me when I say it is better to not engage at all. Just completely ignore them when they are speaking to you, they’ll usually get tired & stop. You got this!