gender trouble >:/ tw: venting, dysphoria n all of that

reddcore 1/12/2022 09:25 pm 293

honestly i identify as a trans dude but like. not binary... but also Not nonbinary. like im a FULL BOY. but just not your version or any other person's version of a boy. i love the version of masculinity that lives in my head. i dont wanna identify as non-binary but i also do????????? only sometimes though. and then i get really scared that im just faking everything and im just a cis woman... the thought of being called like. a princess or just a girl like. revolts me or i literally cant picture it in my head. i dont really know how to explain my gender but i feel like im "nOt TrAnS eNoUgH!!!1!!!!111" a lot even though i hate it sometimes when someone refuses to use he/him and only use they/them for me. like i appreciate that youre at least not coming up and calling me a girl intentionally and i know i don't pass most of the time but please....... just use he/him bro its not that hard. also idk if this is an indicator of something but whenever someone uses they/them pronouns for me i feel like. disappointed. damn lol but TL;DR im not like other boys 1!!1!1!1

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natluvscats688
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Jan 13, 2022 4:03 am

I get where you're coming from, it's the same way for me. I feel like a very masc enby but id also just prefer to be called a guy yk

and I have a "friend" who only uses they/them for me, and yesterday I corrected him when he said she, so he corrected himself and said they, but we literally went back and forth until i told him that I'm literally not gonna debate my pronouns

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gender trouble >:/ tw: venting, dysphoria n all of that

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