trans peoplez

compost_in_training 12/1/2021 10:04 am 475

1) youre all valid happy

2) how commit cope with dysphoria cuz im in the middle of school and it just kinda smacked me in the face :/

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Dec 2, 2021 6:02 pm

what works for me is kinda like,, trying to like the parts of me that make me dysphoric. like im ugly and i look like a boy but yk what ?? im not a boy im just a punk rock dyke ! i might be hairy as all hell but women can be hairy too !!! thats feminism babey !!!!!

i kinda realize that the examples i gave are very specific to like,, gnc transfemmes but the gist is own ur shit !!!! youre cool and being trans is cool !!!!!!! if you put a wacky spin on ur dysphoria itll help you start liking urself more and honestly ? self love is rad !!!!

Dec 2, 2021 9:08 am

I dunno how to help with like day to day dysphoria very much but when you shower I suggest covering the mirror and showering with the lights off :] if you don't like the complete dark you can also do what I do and get one of those water proof led lights for a bit of light but not too much. Jope you're doing well :]

Dec 2, 2021 7:48 am

big hoodies and big t-shirts!

Dec 2, 2021 6:25 am

ummm I listen to vampire inspired music and that helps me lol. may be find a singer with a voice u like and imagine urself singing that or sum

Dec 2, 2021 5:48 am

(tw caps)
Anytime someone’s misgenders/deadnames you, loudly say “WHO’S (WRONG PRONOUN)???????”

It gets people every time

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Dec 1, 2021 11:12 pm

I want fluffy emo boi hair my grandma called me the wrong pronouns after I told her them.I just ignored her and left

Dec 1, 2021 10:10 am

For number 2 if it's bc of deadnames/misgender what I like to do is repeat what people say in my head but replace their words with the right terms

For example if someone comes up and says "It belongs to (incorrect pronouns)" you would repeat it in your head as "It belongs to (correct pronoun)

Idk if any of that made sense >-< but it works lmaoo/pos

Dec 1, 2021 10:07 am

i just imagine myself as hot tiktok men

or make jokes about it and call the parts of me that I get dysphoric about funny names and it makes me feel better