Break Ups

SycoSquirl 11/8/2012 10:07 pm 946

So as a lot of people know I was going out with Brandonsdeal or Freakout for a long time, (hes the one with the spongebob backpack and hempbob shirt) and well we broke up. I made a lot of kandi that represented our relationship and how good we were togther, now Im thinking of taking that kandi apart and making something new out of it but im not sure. Specifically is one of my favorite necklaces which has both our rave names on it with a little heart dangle ID tag with my name on it, im thinking of taking it apart and making a new necklace out of it to reresent being all alone again, opinions? or anyone else have gone through the same thing?

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Nov 9, 2012 11:11 am
Thanks so much for the feedback guys, I am definetely taking it apart. I broke up with him and was trying to be mature about everything and still be somewhat friends with him but he is 4 years older then me and acts like he is 4 year younger, so immature, so I am definetely taking everything apart that I made (cant bring myself to take apart the things he made/gave me so I just wont wear it anymore haha) I love you guys so much, and I hope you guys dont have to go through a bad break up with your kandi boyfriend love struck
Nov 9, 2012 10:28 am
I'm lucky because my ex kandi kid boyfriend and I are still friends, but if we had broken up on bad terms I would probably have wanted to take apart the kandi he gave me. and if I had made any symbolic kandi like you did, I definitely would have taken that apart. You're the one who made it and it has bad emotions attached to it now. You shouldn't feel bad about taking it apart.
Nov 9, 2012 9:25 am
Take it apart. For me when I wear Kandi I feel good and I hold my head a little higher. But if I wore something that reminded me of my ex or was given to me by him, It would only be a reminder and put me down. Especially when people ask you "Whats does *Name* Mean? who is that?" It would be weird for me to answer "Oh just my ex boyfriend." lol
Nov 9, 2012 5:56 am
Iwould take it apart and make a new thing, I do it all the time to kandI I dilike. But in your situation, thats even more appropriate, I wouldnt want kandi that represents my ex.
Nov 9, 2012 1:40 am
I don't really know about you, but I personally would take the kandi apart. I know, some people may think I'm mean for saying this, but I really see it as a kind of "closure" thing. Y'know, like breaking it will make you feel free from that person and get over them faster. But it's different for every person. I hope this helps!