vent/advice wanted

dragonsparkles 11/2/2021 01:04 pm 418

Edit: Thank you so much for your advice!!

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Nov 2, 2021 6:52 pm
@_keroppi_: I’m so sorry that happened to you, that’s literally adding insult to injury...
Thank you for sharing your input. I’m going to try to join some after school club with people with similar hobbies. I actually used to hang out with the anime kids, who acted like the popular kidskao shocked

Maybe I’ll run into some mlp fans, they seem to be really accepting

Nov 2, 2021 6:38 pm

@rotten_meat: Thank you for your kind words and advice. You are right, I need to cut some ties. I’m also trying to work on hobbies and stuff which helps a lot. I’m sorry you had to deal with dumb people too

Also I will probably delete this thread to keep up positivity, I hope it won’t also delete the comments but in case it does I’ll copy yours and others’ comments into my notes for reference kao blush

  • rotten_meat
Nov 2, 2021 5:34 pm

@_keroppi_: exactly! also, OP, I reccommed doing some digging into yourself as well, going through constant emotional abuse like that will fuck up your sense of self so please try your best to do things for you and stay firm with your boundaries and limits.

Nov 2, 2021 5:29 pm

@rotten_meat: i totally agree here- i had the same experience with a girl that i had a crush on who ended up dating my bully sad its best to stop engaging and try to interact w/ a different group of people. I used to only hang w the "popular" kiddos and everyone was always mean to me there, as soon as i started making better more relatable friends (ur chosen electives are a good way to find em) you'll find the right people and eventually find someone who respects you and shares your same feelings

  • rotten_meat
Nov 2, 2021 2:36 pm

This sounds so so harsh and mean and I'm so sorry, I had the same experience as you and I literally had to fist fight a girl over this guy at 13- so I'm just gonna be super blunt because when someone was trying to help me I kinda sorta ignored them- so yeah.


I was going to give a more eloquent response but honestly get better friends and set up some boundries- you're literally getting stepped on all over by men who don't respect you enough to make sure their gf or Bffs are being nice to you. You're getting used by mean that see you as BACKUP. There isn't anything you can do but try to stop simping over toxicity. They're literally manipulating you so they have a cushion for their ego. Babe literally, I beg of you, stop engaging with them