sorta controversial topic that i want to see what people think about it

_n0t_sur3_ 9/9/2021 01:15 pm 526

Is not dating a trans person transphobic?

I think not because what if someone wants kids, trans people (except trans men if they dont get the surgery) cant have children.
It could also be a genital preferance. If a trans man doesnt have a ----- maybe a gay man or a straight women doesnt want that when it comes to intimacy. Same thing follows for trans women without a ------. I want to see what you all think. Please try to be civil

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Sep 17, 2021 11:43 am

@glitched_user: When I say biological woman I mean female, people who are born female. I'm only attracted to female people, so I am not attracted to trans women. My intention wasn't to comment on the validity of trans people, just my own feelings on dating trans people rainbowsmile

Sep 17, 2021 11:06 am

@yeoooooooooooooooooo: You don’t have to date a trans woman if you don’t want to, but they’re still women, whether they’re trans or not. I’m not gonna assume you’re trying to be transphobic or anything and you’re just misinformed, but you really shouldn’t phrase it as “biological women”, since it’s kinda gives off terf vibes and really isn’t a good way to phrase it /nm (also being a lesbian doesn’t have anything to do with someone being trans because a trans woman is just as much of a woman as a cis woman)

Sep 17, 2021 10:33 am

No, I don't think so. I am a lesbian, which means i'm only attracted to biological women, so I wouldn't date a trans woman because I'm not into trans women. Nobody has to date or do anything with anyone else, and I think saying it's bad to deny someone a relationship for any reason is harmful sad2

Sep 17, 2021 4:45 am

if you refuse to date a trans person simply because theyre trans youre transphobic, if you dont wanna date sum1 just because youre not attracted to them or whatever isnt. also the whole thing with kids doesnt really make sense, most of the people that say they wouldnt date trans women since they cant reproduce would date an infertile cis woman. idk if this makes sense or not but rainbow afroken

Sep 17, 2021 4:31 am

@n3onw0rmi: why did someone dislike this..? Sorry if I worded something wrong

Sep 17, 2021 4:31 am

@n3onw0rmi: why did someone dislike this..? Sorry if I worded something wrong

Sep 17, 2021 4:05 am

not dating bc were trans and bc of that you see us as our AGAB? transphobic

not dating bc you just dont wanna date a person who has genitals youre not attracted to? fine

Sep 16, 2021 7:40 pm

its only transphobic when you don date someone because they are trans or do not think they are the gender they say they are

genital preferance and shit like that is fine though

Sep 16, 2021 5:41 pm

not dating a trans prson bc ur not attracted to them? totally fine!


not dating a trans prson bc of a genital pref? also fine!


not dating a trans prson bc u dont believe theyre actually their gender or think theyre just their agab? awful!

Sep 16, 2021 9:37 am

no I don't think so. You don't HAVE to date us. Just respect us it all that I ask