TW: How do you all cope with Dysphoria drop em down below

Tylers_Pretty_Rad 9/2/2021 01:06 pm 621

I was just hoping these could help me or anyone else looking for ways

For me (a completely closeted person)

-Do any gender-conforming things that help

-Honestly sleep

-Draw me as I hope others will one day see me

-Write myself letters

-Act out an introduction in the mirror where I use name/pronouns

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Oct 9, 2021 2:49 pm

i stopped wearing bras and dont bind very often (even in public), wearing black baggy clothes, physically appearing more confident (ex. standing straight), wearing my clothes in a more masculine way (ex. pants lower on my waist) has made me feel wayyyyy less dysphorichklove ofc this isnt a possible or wont work for everyone but its whats helped me!kao happy

Sep 30, 2021 5:23 pm

I just cry until my eyes hurt.

Sep 30, 2021 4:46 pm

i dont have bad dsyphoria luckily, tho some days i do get uncomfy in my parts of my body in public or walking around and stuff.

on days i feel dysphoric or sm i wear a big hoodie or really baggy t shirt and just kind of chill. idk dont have much coping mechanisms

also to feel kinda happy or something i imagine how i want to look in the future and the cute like i want and how cool i hope to be and yeah that can make me feel good

+ listening to Home/This Is Home by Cavetown is a great thing xd i listened to it when i felt hurt and dysphoric cause of my ex friend

Sep 30, 2021 4:30 pm

I luckily don’t get very bad dysphoria very often but when I do I just cry. For the less bad dysphoria I just have to eradicate the problem as fast as possible as much as I can lol

Sep 30, 2021 3:40 pm

act like im one of those tiktok danganronpa cosplayers and do the cool lil hand thing and act like im singing my ordinary life ksdhfks

or just tie up my hair and watch stuff or draw stuff to get distracted thumbsup

Sep 27, 2021 1:08 pm

-Draw nothing but myself with stubble and eyebags


-Receive constant compliments on my body from my bf (this works cuz he clarifies that he likes me with whatever body I wants lol)

Sep 19, 2021 7:14 pm

I listen to cavetown to cope with gender dysphoria!! His music helps me not feel like a monster for being trans lolhappy

Sep 19, 2021 6:41 pm

shrugi scream silently and fantasize about doing bad things to my dad whos lying about not being able to get me puberty blockers

Sep 17, 2021 2:00 pm

i use a paci and have my stuffie and just relax

Sep 17, 2021 10:54 am

I am not trans, but I also suffer from dysphoria. For me, if I can figure out what part of myself and my body is making it worse today, I try to help that. Like, if it's my muscles (my lack thereof) then I work out, if it's my height then I wear tall shoes, etc. I think it helps to find what it is that is most distressing that day. If it's all upsetting then I just... cry, lol.