Small vent

doublezero 4/28/2021 03:17 pm 706

So I'm ftm and I love wearing masc clothes and they make me really comfortable but I also really like wearing skits/chokers/earrings/etc. It always makes me feel like I'm not valid. My goal to be really masc and wear a skirt at the same time and at the moment it just makes me look like a girl ;(. Idk what to do. I've started working out a bit so maybe that'll help but I'm not super masc right at the moment. Please help.

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Apr 28, 2021 3:43 pm

@justxjaxson: Thank you!

Apr 28, 2021 3:23 pm

i understand that completely!! maybe to kind of get used to the idea of wearing both you could like wear masc shirt/pants and then wear cool earrings n stuff with it?? i know for me some days wearing makeup boosts my confidence and other days it triggers dysphoria,,i think a lot of trans guys struggle w this as well. just try your best to remember that you're so very valid no matter what you're wearing and there's many other men who enjoy wearing fem clothing as well!! you're still masculine, and male, no matter what clothing ur wearinglaughing