Are Harnesses S#xual?

xxrat_childxx 3/10/2021 07:47 am 591

Hey! I think that kandi harnesses and leashes and whatever are cool, but I know they are sometimes referred to as s#xual things. What kandi apparel is and isn't s#xual?

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Mar 11, 2021 7:41 am

i wear leather collars n shit. just wear whatever, bead harnesses n stuff are cool af

Mar 10, 2021 6:47 pm

usually leather ones are considered sexual, but beads should be totally fine

Mar 10, 2021 12:13 pm

@_b0xie_w0xie: thx so much!!!! this rlly helped!

Mar 10, 2021 9:29 am

it depends really, if yr using it for s//xual purposes then it is, but if you arent, then it isnt (im bad at explaining soryryryyryyr) but yea i mean they are just beads n string, it isnt the exact same as a real one

Mar 10, 2021 8:38 am

i think itz the intentionz. if you have intent on being zexual, then yez, it iz zexual. if thatz not where your intentionz are, then itz not zexual (zorry if thiz doeznt make zenze i tried my bezt to word it lolz)

Mar 10, 2021 8:27 am

!t rlly d3p3nds h0w u us3 3m^^ ! p3rs0nally d0nt f!nd !t s3xual bc !ts just b3ads, n0t a r3al harn3ss 0r l3ash; but ! d0nt f!nd rlly anyth!ng s3xual unl3ss !ts us3d b3tw33n partn3rs 0r !n th3 b3dr00m^^
[it really depends how you use them^^ I personally dont find it s3xual because its just beads, not a real harness or leash; but I dont find really anything s3xual unless its used between partners or in the bedroom^^]

Mar 10, 2021 8:22 am

All about context tbh. Litterally anything can be ya know. Ties are pretty cool tho

Mar 10, 2021 8:20 am

If i'm being honest, I think it depends on how you use them.