im genuinely confused and dont wanna sound rude so educate me

G1RX3 6/14/2025 02:14 pm 516

how would i use neopronouns? cause there are several people who use those/who are xenogender but i genuinely dont really know how to use those pronouns and i dont wanna come off as rude/uneducated if im talking to someone who does use them /gen /srs 513b3952760e7_sad2.gif

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Jun 16, 2025 1:51 pm

Use them like a normal pronoun, if you need help, type a sentence with they pronouns then thang them to the neopronoun!!

Jun 16, 2025 1:38 pm

@AniTheSilly: tyyy

Jun 16, 2025 6:38 am

Just replace them, her, or him in himself with the neo. Anything her, his, theirs would be the neo with 's. Anything like She, he, they would just be the neo. Hope this helps ;]

Jun 16, 2025 5:16 am

@KAZIIKANDII: ok okay thanks!!! happy

Jun 16, 2025 4:44 am

use it like a nickname in a way??? if that makes sense??

ex: star/starself

"star went to the store by starself"

versus

"she went to the store by herself"

ex: ze/zem

"ze went to the store by zemself"

versus

"he went to the store by himself"

Jun 15, 2025 7:57 pm

have u ever participated in the 'bro went to the store' and whatnot

"bro did this then bro waddled away waddle waddle"

its just that. Ez peezy

Jun 15, 2025 6:14 pm

probably the most common type you'll see are ones like xe/xer/xyr which can replace something like he/him/his in a sentence. there are also nameself neopronouns like star/starself where for example you'd use "star" in place of something like he/him/his, and in place of something like "himself" you'd use "starself." some people use no pronouns and I'm unsure if that counts as a neopronoun but you'd refer to the person with their name in that case.

and you can always just ask if you're unsure! we (or at least I) won't bite, people actually using them is very appreciated :] there are lots out there!! I don't expect you to memorize them all lol. not to mention that not everyone may use common neopronouns the exact same way, for example iirc I modified ve/vir to get vi/vir/virs/virself which is what I like to use.

(also note: not everyone who identifies with a xenogender will use neopronouns and the opposite is true as well. I'm looking into xenogenders I MIGHT identify with but I've been using neos before I considered the possibility lol. they sound cool + I feel extra free from being perceived as any one gender identity.) SORRY FOR THE REALLY LONG ANSWER I JUST FIND THIS STUFF SUPER INTERESTING AND I LOVE SHARING AND HEARING EXPERIENCES AAAA

Jun 15, 2025 3:51 pm
Jun 15, 2025 3:51 pm

@Stamps_the_cringe: ok okay that helped a lot thank u big grin

Jun 15, 2025 3:05 pm

you just kind of use them in place of pronouns, kind of like a name