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can i wear anime shirts , kandi and cosplay to middle school

trans_mondo_owada 1/6/2021 09:28 am 661

so im a mega weeb and also love makeing kandi when im bored and im going back to inperson on next thursday stuff like kandi and a big comfy mha shirt can be the only thing keeping me from a panic attack somedays but ive always been bulied and mis gendered at school and holy crap ive heard horrer storys about middle school normaly on zoom i can get a nice pswg or danganronpa pfp and hide behind a computer but now i have to go to to school and i know i want to go to school in a cosplay as its not in violation of the dress code from what ive read it said nothing on wigs or makeup but im afraid ill get bullied even more kids also seem to be terified of me if they dont know me at all cus of how quiet i always am and i dont think takeing myy adhd pills at the frirst of first period cus i frogot isnt the best thing for me to be doing i know anime is more populer and stuff now than it was 10 years ago but im also scared teachers will dress code me if they think the japaness on a shirt i may be wearsing could be gang sings as most of my teachers are boomers i pretty much just need some elp here edit: im haveing trouble respond to you comments im sorry

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Jan 7, 2021 6:32 pm

Go for it. I've gotta say, going out in outlandish clothes is a HUG3 confidence booster. Also, chances are, you'll attract the right people! ^w^ Will you be made fun of? Possibly. But you'll be way more comfortable in your own skin. Fucking try it dude.

Jan 7, 2021 4:29 pm

@kuromi_oma: that’s not cosplay that’s drag or gay style when not drag but not cosplay.

Jan 7, 2021 4:16 pm

DO IT!!! where what makes u happy!! :33tongue

Jan 7, 2021 1:31 pm

u should b fine with shirts and kandi!! idk if cosplay would b the best 4 school but maybe on a spirit day or smth :

Jan 7, 2021 1:15 pm

maybe be a little cautious, keep it simple. shirts should be fine but if you're so worried about it bring a jacket to cover it. I went to an extremely big school where the people just dont give a fuck- Kandi and Makeup on the other hand should be perfectly fine happy

Jan 7, 2021 8:55 am

@kawaii_penguin: me showing up at the first day lookin like rupaul :????????????

Jan 7, 2021 8:32 am
@ariesinattentiv: Also, with the cosplay bc I forgot about that, I'd say keep it to normal clothes cosplays like lucky star characters for example. if theres a lot of accessories i would suggest leaving them home and just go completely no wig. stuff like that can be a real hassle and its annoying to deal with it in the middle of class so for the sake of comfort and having it not be a huge disruption to yourself, leave them home
Jan 7, 2021 8:27 am

The best advice I can give and simply stop caring about them. I know it's annoying to hear "just stop lol" but realistically, what kind of power do they hold over you? Socially they may be able to harass or annoy you, but the happiness you'll get from diving into your interests 100% and the confidence you can gain from being unashamed to like things is so much stronger than any anxiety other people's judgement might give you, and let it be known this is coming from someone who was in the exact same situation as you. I was terrified to wear the things I liked for fear of judgement and looking weird, but you really just have to go all in. Besides, if you openly express yourself and show off what you like, it's very likely that you'll be able to more easily find friends who also like that thing. I have a little MHA backpack that I use as a purse and I cannot tell you how many CVS cashiers I've bonded with over it. I've got the demonia damned-318s (look em up theyre fucken cool boots) and if I wanna wear those out I do not have time!!! To worry about what other people think about me. Besides, I get hella compliments, so wear the things you like!! Being happy with yourself and feeling good about how you look is so much fun.

However, if you're in genuine danger of like. Physical harm, be careful. I don't know where you live or what your community is like so if you're in actual danger please be careful, though I highly HIGHLY doubt anyone will do more than jeer at you for an anime shirt

Jan 6, 2021 8:58 pm

I’m sure it’s ok. But be careful. People can be so mean to people that r doing nothing wrong, stay safe<3

Jan 6, 2021 8:03 pm

ok im gonna be a little harsh but the truth is chances are you're going to get made fun of, middle schoolers suck so bad and people will just tell you to ignore them and be yourself but that can be really hard when you're at a stage in your life where peer approval matters so much, that being said if you can get yourself a few really good friends with similar interests to you it'll make things a lot easier and just keep in mind that if kids are bullying you for being swag its probably just because they're either too scared to showcase their interests and are taking that out on you or because they're boring and cant process how cool you are, or maybe they're just dicks. either way I'm here if you need to talk and I hope that your able to dress how you feel most comfortableanimal05animal05