Unsupportive parents... (vent)

Trinityxyzz 12/3/2024 05:13 am 288

So for those who haven't friended me I'm trans.


Anyways, so my mom went through my phone, again, and found my trans memes, drag memes, photos of me crossdressing, etc. (I mean come on, it's one thing to go thru messages, but going through the camera roll is wild)


soooo she lectured me about it. "I mean all this trans and drag stuff is worrying..." (how is it? or are you just unsuportive?) "I mean it's insane how you think a man can turn into a woman" (thats not at all what i think, crazy how you put words into my mouth)


like seriously im done.


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Dec 3, 2024 8:23 am

real. i haven't come out yet and i don't think i ever will again after the last time i did and i feel like everyone will judge me so yeah.

Dec 3, 2024 8:15 am

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I hate seeing people have to go through the same things I did. I’m not sure if it’s helpful to hear but you’re not alone, and you’ll be able to get out of their house one day and not have to be subject to their hateful words. I hope they come around to it one day, and I hope they will be able to apologize to you and see how wrong they really were. twirlingheart If you ever need to talk I’m always here heart bounce /gen

Dec 3, 2024 8:06 am

Im so sorry. I hate unsupportive parents sad my parents won't even let me cut my hair above my collarbone bc they think I'll turn into a man (I came out as non-binary a really long time ago and they FLIPPED. yeah it was just a phase but it really hurt.)

Also they found out I thought I was neurodivergent and they freaked out like "No you're not stop it." They call me autistic and the r slur every single day buhh like stop joking about it if you don't mean it????

Sorry I didn't mean to vent on a vrnt but I'm so tired of being treated like I'm not worth anything and if I want to express myself that's just Satan trying to turn me into a earthly brainwashed heathen weirdo

Dec 3, 2024 7:38 am

@raine_whispers: hold up... we twins! (transfemme bi)


if ur in georgia, once i get a job, we can split a house or sm ig

Dec 3, 2024 7:35 am

i feel zo bad... but just know ur not alone, my parents don't support tranz ppl either and go thru my stuff too! just know that if u need anybody to talk to about your experience or someone to relate to, you alwayz have me (az a tranzmasc bigender living w/ unsupportive parentz, the best thing 4 my mental health iz somebody who supportz me when my parentz don't!) I'm here 4 u <3

Dec 3, 2024 7:32 am

@gravityfallsfan1: damn... thats metal af, thank you

Dec 3, 2024 7:28 am

As a fellow trans person I feel a rage that can only be experienced in the deepest pits of hell. I'm truly sorry for all that you are going through, just remember to stay strong, and to be true to yourself.

Dec 3, 2024 7:02 am

@Rawrxdlol: thanks, hugs are lovely

Dec 3, 2024 6:50 am

im sorry that you are in this position. i dont have any advice but its not wrong to be trans and you deserve to express your style and gender however you want.

Dec 3, 2024 6:45 am

im so sorry. Im sad i cant do anything. Sending hugs from home beating heart