I don't think she likes me back.

DesiiDamage 12/4/2015 07:56 am 1918

So theres this girl I sit by in orchestra and I like her so much. And I told her and she was cook about it and I said it sucked because she'll never like me back and she said "you don't know that" and another time I said i wanted to flirt but I didn't know how and she said same. She has a boyfriend but said she doesn't like him or love him and that he's not the one for her but idk.. Cause now things are weird. Like we barely talk ( not that we did a whole bunch. Efpre bit now its like not at all) and I just idk she doesn't text me back all that often Andi just idk cause I thought she was into me at least somewhat and now I get so fucking sad sitting next to her in class. What do I do? I need help guys

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Jan 2, 2021 8:27 pm

whatever. Im ace and grey-romantic and dont know a lot but maybe yall should try to get to know her and be friends first. You dont have to tell her if you arent comfortable with it

Jan 2, 2021 7:52 pm

I really wish I knew how to help, I'm pansexual and I'm currently in a relationship with a man. But a couple years ago I did have a crush on a girl and oh my God XD I am so horrible at talking to girls I swear I don't know what it is LOL

Jan 1, 2021 12:18 am

bro my girlfriend said that shiz when i told her i liked her just dont give up on love

Dec 31, 2020 7:45 am

I wish I knew how to help, but it happened to me twice. Last year I really liked this girl, then quarantine hit and we stopped talking, so I emailed her, she responded, and I got her hangouts, but she barely talks to me and I just gave up. And this year I met a girl through a group chat I made on hangouts and we joke about dating but that's about it.

Dec 22, 2015 3:45 pm

I think you should tell her that you miss talking to her and you think that you could be great friends. Once you rebuild the relationship you had before, you can reevaluate and see if you still feel the same way about her, or if she's broken up with her boyfriend, etc. Having a relationship as friends might help you to be comfortable and confident enough to ask if she likes you, or what her sexual orientation is. If you think she'll reject you because of anything related to you liking her, maybe you should slide in a conversation on her views on other sexualities. It's important to know how she feels about this because it gives you room to ask about her liking you or lets you know not to ask at all. Good luck! You can message me any time you want to about anything,

Dec 10, 2015 12:43 am

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  • Elizabeth
Dec 6, 2015 10:07 pm

I really just wanted to say that im so jealous of you kids. Im 25 and I remember when I was in middle and high school and liking someine could feel so passionate and if I actually got a boyfriend it was my entire world. You lose that once u grow up and become a part of the real world and have your dreams trampled on, your heart ripped into a million pieces multiole times. Exleriemce lonlieness in a relationship, divorce, etc. And peetty much all im trying to say is even thiugh its tough to deal with sometimes enjoy it because you wont feel things that passionately forever. Btw im not a creeper. I used to do the perler bead thing but im sewing a herringbone stitch cuff with 11/0 beads and peyote stitch patterns dont fit so these patterns it is until I get it all down. Carry on lol

Dec 5, 2015 9:30 pm

My best advice would be to tell her that you miss how you guys used to talk. It sounds like she did like you back, but she was too scared to break it off with her boyfriend. It can be hard to break up, even if you're really unhappy. Maybe she doesn't want people to know that she likes women (assuming you're a girl from your profile). But you should still tell her how you feel anyway, because you won't be able to stop thinking about it until you get everything straight with her. Being honest is always the best policy, I think. You have to know when to move on yourself, though. If she doesn't come around, you'll have to accept that. Maybe she's not good enough for you to like her if she doesn't like you enough to return your feelings. That's the best I can draw on from my relationship experience. Good luck out there!

  • Skyler
Dec 5, 2015 3:38 pm

Alrighty Hun, first rule In life, you want something, you give it your all! if you really like this lil lady then you just have to go for it, there's no sure way to tell how people feel about you, and who cares if things get akward, just flow with it, if it's akward and y'all both know it then change that, it may not feel like it but you are in control of how you feel 100%, I believe in you kiddo, go get her!